Category: Domme Thought

Domme Thoughts Podcast: Some Changes to the Blog

by Ms Ambre Jadein Domme Thought

Domme Thoughts is going to be a podcast. It is becoming increasingly obvious that people are not so into reading more than 140ish characters at a time. This makes me sad. I love to write, and I tend to write a lot. Not so much these days I guess, but it is still something I truly enjoy. That is neither her nor there, the decrease in readership is having me rethink the format of my weekly (in theory) blogging.

Domme Thoughts Podcast

So here is the plan starting in July, I did warn you awesome things were coming…

Domme Thoughts is becoming a podcast! I know, I am excited too. I have yet to decide if I will be completely removing the blog here or just have the same content, but in written form.

Those of you who are subscribers to my LoyalFans, have no fear. I will be recording the podcasts and putting them up for my favourite marionettes. I am quite excited for this new format. Mostly it will be in the same style as the blog posts I am currently sharing, some stream of consciousness stuff, some information, some more research based stuff. It is going to be fantastic.

Other fun new things are coming in July, but guess what? You will have to wait to learn more. Yes, I am a tease and I like it that way.

When I have more things set up for my Domme Thoughts Podcast I will share them with you. Right now, I have a site and an RSS Feed but no content has been uploaded. We are waiting for July. This will be a weekly podcast of a shorter format, about 15-20 minutes for starters. Though, we all now how much I love to talk. There will not be any erotic hypnosis releases there. This is more of an exploration of sexual expression, musing and reflections on my own experiences and more.

If you have any content ideas, please feel free to send them my way. I don’t usually have issues coming up with content, but it is always nice to cover topics my audience is interested in.

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Upcoming Hypnotic Releases

by Ms Ambre Jadein Domme Thought, Hypnosis

My schedule is finally back to normal which allows me to focus on my upcoming hypnotic releases. I am super excited. My goal is to focus on July release dates rather than June, to allow me to create premium creations and not some quickly put together bullshit phone sex style files. (Nothing wrong with those but not where I want to be).

Upcoming Hypnotic Releases from Ms AmbreJade

The plan is to start off July with a bang, 5 hypnotic releases, hopefully all on the first. The first file will be a free one. This is specifically created for all those that would like to listen to my files. In this file, I will be creating the infrastructure inside your mind for quicker inductions AND the ability to cancel, at your discretion any effects my voice, words, power have over you. I have been spending a good amount of time with my local community and am seeing a lack of empowerment for hypno-submissives in determining when they would like to move on. Also I don’t want some lazy hypnotist stealing my triggers I worked so hard to put into your mind. I am going to talk more about this in a subsequent post. No, it does not make you any less submissive, stop being a fucking doormat!

Why July?

So some amazing hypnotic releases will be coming out in July. Why not June, you ask. Well, I got stuff to organise first and I want to keep my timelines. I do have a very hectic life outside of my naughty work, which is wonderful. Being busy is a good thing but it means my focus is being drawn to multiple places. I would like to focus on building my vanilla business. So, my dear marionettes, this means I am fitting in my naughty stuff where I can and where it does not put too much of a burden on my brain power. I am a powerful woman, but fatigue is a thing! I believe with proper scheduling and routine I will excel with both my endeavours easily, I just need to find the right schedule. And the right balance.

What Wonderful Hypnotic Releases Will Make Their Way to You?

I have five that are currently in various stages of creation:

  • Heavy Corridor Door: This releases is focused on creating a self destruct mechanism in your mind so you may distance yourself from my influence whenever you decide. I feel this is important. As previously stated there will be another post on this specifically and why I am making it a priority. This file will be free to all.
  • Dripping Desire: Focuses on a physical experience, there will be pleasure and orgasm.
  • Mushy Mind: A file focused on letting go completely and indulging my every whim when you fall into this state.
  • Powerless Resistance: The more you resist, the more influence I have over you.
  • Deeply Rooted: The planting of a single seed creates roots throughout your mind and body.

I have several more that are in the works, but these five will be released in July.

There are many plans for July, all of which are completely doable in the time frame I am giving myself, so please be on the look out for some amazing new content but free and premium.

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Move Finished Just in Time for My Birthday

by Ms Ambre Jadein Domme Thought

So, I promise I have not disappeared (as I am admittedly prone to doing), I have spent the last few months preparing for a move. Which may sound like not a big deal, but fuck, I hate moving. No need to revisit that chaos in this post as it is very unsexy, but it is complete and now, I have all the things set up and ready to go to make more and more amazing content for you all.

My previous abode, though lovely in terms of size, was not conducive to a creative environment. My neighbours who were also my landlords, were/are miserable cunts who complained at the slightest sound coming from my place. Except sex noise oddly enough, I think it made them uncomfortable… But we are talking the moment my fingers skimmed the keyboard, there was a knock at the door about it. They and we had some issues. The only way to deal, since I love creating content was to leave. So here I am, in my new home, typing away at 5 am with no visits or complaints. It is fucking glorious.

This new found freedom will bring about some new projects and wonderful things for me. I am so excited! I feel like I have been bottling up all my creative tendencies in anticipation for this change. There will be a flurry of things coming your way throughout this month and for many to come.

I did manage to move just in time for my birthday! I don’t really plan on doing much except basking in the glory of my new home, but that doesn’t mean you cannot spoil me 🙂

Ways to Spoil Me for My Birthday:

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That’s it for today, a short, not as sexy as usual message for you but I wanted to update you all on the happenings over here.

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Sensory Cues to Optimise the Hypnotic Experience

by Ms Ambre Jadein Domme Thought, Hypnosis

I will be partaking in a workshop later this week concerning Erotic Hypnosis and was given the chance to pick any topic of conversation I wanted. Now, those who know me well, know that I can talk about the hypnotic experience for hours… I have 30 minutes. Rather than discussing techniques or suggestions or deepeners or any of the many other topics, I am focusing on sensory cues.

Since I am really good at procrastinating, like it’s fucking art at this point, I have decided to discuss it here with you (look how lucky you are) and organise my thoughts on sensory cues here.

Sensory cues with hypnosis and Ms AmbreJade

The Five Senses:

We all know there are 5 senses (arguably there is a 6th but this is not the time or place to discuss such things). I believe senses are part of primary school learning. I am going to list them anyway, because who remembers primary school?

  1. Sight
  2. Hearing
  3. Smell
  4. Touch
  5. Taste

Each one is like a hack into a person’s psyche with enough time and consistency. Each of the senses provides an opportunity for long term programing. Building associations between sensory cues. One piece of advice here though, if you are coming at this from the Tist perspective, use caution. You do not want to associate the benign with eroticism, this can and will create uncomfortable moments, always add an environment and ecology aspect to it. For example, if you hear this when we are alone….

Examples Sensory Cues:

All of these cues can be used for induction as well, or my personal favourite, brain washing. But I am not about to share all my secrets 😉 Yeah, I probably will at some point, I can’t abide gate keeper.

Sight: This one is kind of obvious, the Hypnotist holding a crystal or watching a spiral.

Hearing: Again with the obvious, words spoken but you can take it a little further a song playing gently in the background, a metronome. I have a built in cue here as my heart constantly ticks, it adds to the hypnotee experience.

Smell: Think about signature perfumes, or even deodorant or laundry soap. Smell is probably the most under utilised of all the sensory cues, which is so unfortunate as in my experience it is the most powerful.

Touch: This is a more recent one for me, as up until recently my focus has been primary one on one phone or video sessions and custom creations. I am, however, really loving this one. Here you can play with many things. I like to find special places.

Taste: Oh, taste. Similar to touch in that I have not had the opportunity to use this kind as often.

I will be creating a series of posts on this topic in the coming weeks.

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What are your Erotic Hypnotic Goals?

by Ms Ambre Jadein Domme Thought, Hypnosis

I have written about erotic hypnotic goals in the past. I think back in 2014? OMG Am I that old now, Jebus…. Anyway, I wanted to revisit the concept. I am and always have been an incredibly goal oriented woman. Every action I take to have a purpose, blatant or not. I don’t need you to know what it is, just know there is always a reason for everything I do.

That being said who establishes these erotic hypnotic goals? Is it you or is it me? A fair question. The answer is both. I like to have discussions with my subjects prior to any erotic hypnosis interactions. The first session tend to be more focused on me and you getting to know each other. How responsive you are? What language you respond to? What ideas or prompts work best for you? Essentially, a first session is like a first date, but more expensive for you.

Erotic Hypnotic Goals with Ms AmbreJade

Goals and Ownership

I do not have cookie cutter goals for all my subjects. I cannot and do not want to own every one who would like to have a session with me. There are only so many hours to my day, and I am a busy ass woman. That is not to say we cannot work towards goals together. It means that the erotic hypnotic goals we create will be based on moments and time spent together, rather than daily interactions and ownership. Is that the case with everyone? No. I would just like to make it clear that I take ownership, Domming, insert appropriate term very seriously and I cannot have everyone living in a 24h power exchange dynamic with me. I know my limits. The results would be some shitty cookie cutter D/s dynamic where neither of us grow.

Can we play together without ownership? Yes! Can we create and work towards erotic hypnotic goals together? Hell, yes! And in those moments we spend together, there are moments and times where you will feel as though you belong to me.

Creating Erotic Hypnotic Goals Steps:

  1. I have a series of questions I like all new subjects to answer prior to any session. You can use these question for a few purposes. You can see what you want and do not want. And knowledge is power for the hypnotist. I can into this in more detail another time.
  2. Figure out what it is that appeals to you about hypnosis. Is it the letting go? Is it orgasming? Is it submitting to the hypnotist? What is it that makes hypnosis the best tool for the task at hand?
  3. What sort of behaviours do you want to modify? I love conditioning and brain washing and all those delicious morsels of programming. What would you as the subject want to change?

The steps to creating that potential change, should are really up to the hypnotist. Together you should both create a plan and put together your erotic hypnotic goals.

What are some goals you would like to set?

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February Fun and Chaos

by Ms Ambre Jadein Domme Thought

So as some of you may have noticed, my presence during February thus far has been lacking. There has been some chaos since late last month. Basically every dimension in my life had some sort of change this month. So, it has been chaotic, and intense while simultaneously being an amazing storm in which to plant my garden of change. (ooo, I am getting all metaphor-y in this)

TLDR: I broke up with my girl, had surgery, am moving, found a new partner and am loving life right now!

We are at the end of the month, and March is going to be amazing and full of content, so I figured I would share some of the upheaval that has been around me.

Beginning of February, I had a surgery, minor, no big deal but everything is nuts when you take blood thinners on the regular so that was fun. I might have to take up needle play as a kink. Let me tell you, I am getting to be very good with a syringe. Surgery, the lead up and the recovery took some time. All went well, my INR is not where it should be, my mother stayed with me for a few days. It was like a little vacation for her which was great.

Prior to the surgery, I broke things off with my partner. They are a multitude of reasons, but really, it came down to the energy just not vibing in a way that was conducive to what I want/need from my relationships. It was hard on her. It was not hard on me, so just to give an idea about the nature of the dynamic. There are no hard feelings on my end, and I don’t mind having this person in my life, but the way it was just didn’t work. And I needed to end things prior to my surgery, so it may have been a little abrupt for her.

So yeah. A bit of a change. I must admit it was a positive change. I couldn’t understand why whenever we played or whenever we hung out I felt like an asshole. (She never made me feel that way, it was internal.) Ultimately, what I learned is that if the dynamic outwardly looks like it works, but you feel uneasy or like something is off, listen to that.

Moving on… speaking of moving… During my recovery, while my mother was with me, I made a decision. After five million years living where here, I will be moving. In May. My current landlords are dickheads and live below me. They were making content creation difficult for me, too noisy apparently… Hypnosis… too noisy… wtf. My typing on my keyboard was a source of much aggression. So I will be moving in May. I am very much so looking forward to it.

Feeling Amazing!

So I don’t know what combination of change has brought this about but I am feeling fucking incredible. I have been in an amazing mood for weeks now. In February, in Canada, in Quebec… this time of year revolves around depression and sugar shacks. I don’t know what is the reason behind it but I have just feeling great.

Also found a new person to play with, I haven’t spoken with them about how much detail I can put here, so let’s just say it is promising 🙂

So that is the end of my February round up. I know I was a little out of character this month with my creations and posting but the world is back to normal, or something similar. I have some amazing things coming out in March, so be on the look out. More details coming soon.

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Trance, Let’s Talk About It

by Ms Ambre Jadein Domme Thought, Hypnosis

It’s time for us to talk about trance. Erotic and other. Let’s start this off with a little recounting of my activities on Saturday. My usual Saturday activities were on hold for some health shit, all is well, don’t worry! So it left an opening on my Saturday. Wouldn’t you know it, there was going to be a workshop on erotic hypnosis at a local dungeon. I took this as a sign from the universe that I should attend, so I did. This was not like a deep dive into the ultimate tool that I have found hypnosis to be, but rather an introduction, 101 kind of course.

For those of you who don’t know, I love to revisit things. There is something magical about the basics. On occasion, we all get lost in the complexity and more hardcore representations of our kinks, hypnosis is no exception. I would even make an argument that it is easier to lose sight of hypnosis foundations. I will likely touch on this in a later post.

The workshop itself focused mainly on inducing trance. Nothing really beyond the letting go aspect. No suggestions, no fractionation, no NLP, no behaviour mods, nothing like that. After a presentation, we were given the opportunity to induce trance with our partners and other participants. As someone who really does not like having another person near my mind, I consequently and selfishly did not allow others induce trance on me. (I have some issues with control and I have some adverse reactions, stories for another time.) Ever the educator, I really wish I had allowed someone the opportunity. However, I know my current boundaries and am respecting them.

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And Now, Where Does Trance Fit In?

Following this workshop, I spent a good amount of time thinking about the activities I perform daily. Looking at which ones are trance adjacent, if not trance themselves. I do a lot of things that can be seen as a form of trance. My morning routine is always the same. My evening routines do vary, regardless there are certain sequences of events that happen repeatedly. I practice martial arts, essentially performing the same series of movements over and over and over and over and over and over…. you get the idea. This is my trance, this is where I let go. Routine.

What aspects of your daily life involve trance? Have you ever stopped to think about it? In this sort of online domain of transactional sexuality we forget that not all experiences need to be sexual or bought. (Not that I am discouraging you from purchasing things, just making a statement of fact!) We have moments of trance regularly, throughout our day, usually completely unaware that we have entered this state of consciousness. Take a few moments and really think about… List the moments where you let go. It can be playing video games, listening to music, anything routine, anything really.

How Can We Harness This Daily Trancing?

I think there are many ways we can use our vanilla trance moments for darker, more nefarious purposes 😉 Using other techniques, we can bring in anything from simple to complex behavioural changes by harnessing these moments. An example, that’s what you really want right?

Let’s say you have a bedtime routine. The same hygiene routine, same procedure every time you prepare for slumber. Add a change to it. Add a new aspect to your routine. Change will happen faster as the process is already established. Every night, I want you stroking for me before bed. You have the loop of me telling you to stroke. Consequently, you play it in your headphones throughout nightly routine. After a while, you will hear the loop, without plaing it. Brushing your teeth will have my thoughts and words dancing in your mind. The power of daily, even vanilla trance provides amazing opportunities for behavioural changes, and modifications of all kinds

Imagine what an experienced Hypnotist could do with such things.

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Erotic Hypnosis and Attention Issues: Best Practice

by Ms Ambre Jadein Domme Thought, Hypnosis, Life Coaching

Do you find that your attention span is shorter than “normal”? Many people with attention span issues are under the erroneous impression that hypnosis, erotic or otherwise will not work for them. Erotic hypnosis does and will work on anyone! Those with attention issues have a multitude of things working in their favour. While the shinny thing in the corner might be distracting, that ability to hyper-focus is an asset when it comes to hypnosis. It’s all about how you use the tool available to you.

Erotic Hypnosis and Attention Issues

That ability to hyper-focus is your greatest gift. It may not seem that way at first. You are easily distracted, however when you manage to train your mind to focus, it will be an incredible asset for you. The challenge is finding the best way to harness it. How do you use your unique mind to create amazing experiences with erotic hypnosis?

Erotic Hypnosis and Attention Issues Best Practice List:

When listening to recordings:

  1. And this one is really important! Regardless of what is said within a file, if you need to twitch or move around a bit, embrace that. I know it goes against the “be very still” mantra that is often used in hypnosis recordings (mine included). However, allowing yourself the chance to stim might be the best way to focus on the words being said.
  2. Listen repeatedly. You have access to recordings for as long as you keep them. Why not use them often? Even if the desired effect is not working the first time, repeated exposure will familiarise you with both the voice and the file itself. Try to listen in a dark room, or staring at a spiral, there is a reason these things are cliched.
  3. Really use your imagination. Those with attention issues have a tendency of being far more imaginative than those with “standard” attention spans. Use the power of your mind to really give in to the scenario. The mind is a very powerful thing. Focusing on details and tiny elements will help you engage more in the experience.
  4. Know that trance is achievable for you and just enjoy the experience. Don’t spend the whole time angry or annoyed that it is taking so long (common response). Just listen and enjoy.
When doing a one on one:
  1. Make sure the hypnotist is aware of your attention issue. This will help them adjust the pacing of the session.
  2. Aim for shorter more intense sessions.
  3. Combine it with other aspects of your sexual desires. For example, edge throughout the entire session (if you have permission)
  4. Try to avoid video sessions. The likelihood of distraction is higher. Focus on voice.
  5. Establish a rapport with the hypnotist beforehand. Be comfortable with who they are. So you are not distracted by mannerisms and tones and cadence.

There are many ways to make the most out of your hypnosis experience. Erotic hypnosis and attention issues do not have to clash. Shorter attention spans do have many up sides, including a more vivid imagination.

What tricks do you have?

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Guided Meditation vs Erotic Hypnosis

by Ms Ambre Jadein Domme Thought, Femdom, Hypnosis, Life Coaching

Guided meditation is a passion of mine. I have been spending a good chunk of time these last few weeks writing new erotic hypnosis content, and it struck me. I would also love to create some Guided Meditation sessions as well. So I started and I have to say, the results are lovely! A few will be coming out shortly.

Isn’t Guided Meditation and Hypnosis the Same Thing?

In a nut shell, no. They are different. Both create an environment of relaxing. The way I see it, and I suppose, others can, maybe even will, argue with my views but fuck it, I am writing this piece… Guided Meditation is a journey, an adventure for the sake of self exploration and relaxation. Hypnosis can also be a journey, depending on the style, and fosters deep relaxation. Where it differs, erotic hypnosis has an ultimate goal. There is a behavioural change that the hypnotist creates or deepens throughout the session.

This is a wonderful thing. I, myself, delight in creating deeper, more responsive submission from my marrionettes. However, sometimes it is nice to just explore your sexual experiences without change.

Why Wouldn’t you Want Erotic Hypnosis?

Why would someone chose a guided mediation session over an erotic hypnosis session? The answer is fairly simple, at least to me. A guided meditation session will allow you to explore your own sexuality, your own sexual views, kinks, fetishes, etc. Whereas erotic hypnosis is telling you what and how to feel regarding specific sexual experiences. The wording makes it seem like erotic hypnosis is bad, it really is an amazing experience. The manipulation of it is incredibly sexy. That being said, sometimes we just want to relax, and if there is some sexual tension and sensation with that, all the better!

Best Practice:

Combine both erotic hypnosis and guided meditation to create a truly amazing experience. More time with my voice, a better understanding of your own submissive needs, feeling my control… What more could you possibly ask for?

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BDSM Protocol: It’s Important

by Ms Ambre Jadein Domme Thought, Femdom, Life Coaching, Sessions

The importance of BDSM protocol is often overlooked. Protocols and routines are what keep both submissive and Dominant in their proper roles. Not initially, but as familiarity is inevitable, the reliance on protocol becomes more important. As an Individual who is very much about routine, ritual, and protocol, even in my vanilla life, I can think of no other established BDSM practice that deserves more attention of emphasis in any dynamic.

Bringing in Previously Established BDSM Protocol:

Each dynamic between Domme and submissive is different. Every Dominant has their own set of rules and behaviour they desire their submissive to emulate. Is it wrong to bring those into a new dynamic? The answer, as with many things is, “it depends.” Like everything protocols are relative to the person deciding them and the person receiving the commands. Some Mistresses despise having someone else’s protocols in their submissive. From a personal standpoint, I really don’t give a fuck where they come from so long as it is something I want or am willing to compromise on. Protocols bring comfort, so if a sub is new to me, then I give them a little more wiggle room. There are certain protocols that seem to be popular that just do not do it for me.

The Comfort:

There is something about routine that comforts me. I am, without a doubt, not the only person who feels this way. Perhaps mine is more heightened because of all my martial arts training and the importance placed upon ritual. I like to put into place a set of parameters that serve as a demonstration of respect for the other person. You may be my submissive, however I still want to respect you. I cannot understand why people want to own what they do not respect or admire. Maybe that’s just a personal little quirk I have. There are times in play in which it may seem like I don’t respect you, like humiliation scenes and the life. The best thing about protocols, is that following a session, protocols are back in place and act as a reminder of your place.

A Few Examples of BDSM Protocol:

It goes without saying, or perhaps not since I am saying it anyway, that protocol is different depending on the scenario and dynamic. In person is different than virtual. Expectations are different. I do however have some universal protocol regardless of how you and I are interacting. Let’s look at a few:

  • A greeting is essential, virtually this can be anything from a hello to bow. In person, my favourite is a peck on the hand or foot.
  • This goes with greeting a little, if you are sending me an email, or DM and expect a reply, send a tribute. I will expand on that in a later post. There is a reason for it, not from a place of greed but of mutual respect.
  • Nudity. When in a scene or approaching the time for a scene, I expect you to be nude. This goes for virtual as well, whenever possible. (I have a thing for CFNm.)
  • Establish boundaries, limits and such before a session takes place. This is the same whether it is virtual or in person. (Since I also have a bit of an interrogation fetish, this works well.)
  • Once a scene or session has started, make no demands! This is not your place and this is definitely not the time. Exception, red or black cards and check ins. Honestly, I will end the session. This shit just sits poorly with me.
  • All apologies are done while kneeling.

There are many others and some that are not centred around BDSM. I have some that are very important to me personally, like when you leave a space, you make sure it is in the same condition as it was when you got there or better. Or when you get up from your seat, push your bloody chair in. Things that make me nuts… Anyway, these are other random things.

How Do you Establish Protocol?

Communicate… say it with me… Communicate!

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