Findom Archives - Ms Ambre Jade

Your Money, My Trips; Findom Opportunities

September 14, 2016January 4, 2023 by Ms Ambre Jadein Domme Thought, Femdom, Findom

The more money you send me, the better the trips will be! I have a few trips planned for the coming year, some concrete trips and others more laissez-faire. How good would it feel to provide your Goddess the opportunity to travel? It would be better than spending the money on yourself. The knowledge that my adventures, which will be well documented, were made possible by you knowing your place, and putting my desires above your own needs. I can think of few experiences that could rival that. Few opportunities where you can be completely assured of my pleasure!

My travel schedule is still up in the air, but there are some trips which are for certain:

New Orleans:

I will be in New Orleans for a few days in December. The trip has been covered by a delightful boy who knows it is on my top three American cities to visit. I have never been. This should be exciting. As the trip has been covered your contributions will be purely for my enjoyment, my luxuries during my travels.

Cuba:

Winter is rough on me. Come February, March I need to escape the bitter cold that is a Montreal winter and bask in the sun for at least a week, preferably 2. Ideally, I would do one week on a random beach and then a second week in Havana. My last venture there was in 2012, and I did not get to experience all that I wanted to. I want an all inclusive beach experience for that first week. My stay in Havana will be more about experiencing the culture. A stay within the city, shopping the local markets and experiencing the local dining experience.

Tokyo, Japan:

This trip is not yet set in stone. There has been talk within my martial arts family of visiting in October 2017. This trip will likely be expensive, just the flight is somewhat ridiculous. As the date approaches, I will have more information concerning destinations, time line, travel, etc.

How Can I Contribute to your Goddess Travels?

Very easily 🙂 Send tribute via giftrocket, let me know it is for my travel fund. You will also see this button:

Scattered about my sites. Clicking on it will bring you to my Niteflirt where you can contribute as many times as you would like.

Why Should I Want to Contribute?

Beyond the pleasure you receive in sending me money, you will get the opportunity to see my travel pictures, potentially in real time. Who would not want that?

So please me, like good little piggies, squeal with delight as you send me places… if you are very lucky, perhaps I will visit somewhere near you 😉

À bientôt,

Ambre Jade

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Budgeting For Findom Slaves, Domme Advice

September 12, 2016 by Ms Ambre Jadein Findom, Life Coaching

Over the last few weeks, there have been three incidents in which I create a budget for a Findom slave. Some people seem to believe that budgeting for findom slaves takes away some of the fun, that by capping what you can give, or rather what you should give takes away from the experience. From a personal standpoint, I have never found it so. I have always enjoyed creating budgets, pinching pennies, finding creative solutions, things like that. I have primarily created such plans for those who worship me, but on a few occasions there have been requests from individuals (slaves) who serve another.

Seeking Advice

These slaves, though for me, I look upon them as individuals seeing as they serve another, tend to be looking for an impartial look at their contributions to their Goddess’ lifestyle without living out of a cardboard box. As sexy as the fantasy of breaking financially, the reality is not so pleasant. Sure, an accountant would be best but do you desire admitting to your accountant that this is your fetish? Do you want to have to explain the who, what, where, when, why s of your financial domination fetish? Finding someone who both understands your fetish and is excellent with numbers would be a perfect compromise. You could also speak with your Goddess, but not everyone wants to admit there are limitations on their spending or it is just not something that is part of their findom experience. Also, let’s be honest, Findoms (and there are many, many exceptions to this prejudice) are not very well known for their benevolence. Sometimes you need an outside voice that understands and is willing to help.

Budgeting for Findom slaves that Serve Me

An outside voice is not the motivation when you serve me. I am the only voice. The motivation comes from a desire to give more, not just money but also more information. The creation of a budget requires a large amount of information to the shared with me. I have an understanding of how you spend and what you spend it on. I can see and judge your priorities. This sharing of information, under the right conditions can be incredibly erotic. Information is power and knowing your financial situation is more information for me 🙂

I want Ambre Jade to help me with my Findom budget!

Naturally you can see how budgeting for Findom slaves would be beneficial to myself and to you, as the slave. How do you make that a reality? There are a few choices:

Call my Lifestyle Line on Niteflirt, I will get all the information I need from you and subsequently send you a delightful spreadsheet
Call my toll free (mention it is for budgeting, it is cheaper than hypnosis)
Email me AmbientAmbre@gmail.com and enclose a 50$ tribute via giftrocket.

Be on the look out for more budget tips, including how to make more money for your Goddess.

Have fun with your budget planning!

À bientôt,

Ambre Jade

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Birthday Celebrations

May 31, 2016October 9, 2020 by Ms Ambre Jadein Femdom, Findom

Tomorrow is My birthday. I have been so distracted by other projects, karate stuff and life, that I was completely oblivious to the upcoming anniversary of My birth. I have never been very big on celebrating My birthday but in the last few years it has become more meaningful. Plus presents 🙂 I love presents.

My birthday celebrations will not take place until the weekend. I will be celebrating with several friends, many of whom have birthdays within the same week. It has become something of a tradition. This year our theme will be strippers and champagne. Seems like the perfect combination of things to celebrate My existence in this world. We have not quite hashed out any of the details, but I am sure it will be very exciting.

Want to help with My birthday celebrations?

Want to partake in some way? Well, you can’t come with. I know, you want to join. That’s fair but you can’t. What you can do is make some offerings, send gifts from My wishlist, giftcards, tributes, the list is limitless.

Here is what you should do:

Send Me a giftcard through giftrocket.com to AmbientAmbre@gmail.com

Pay for My summer Karate Training Camp (the second half)

Look through My Birthday Wishlist and find something you think I would want from you!

Didn’t find anything? Check out My Wishlist or send Me an amazon gift card!

Send Me a TRIBUTE via Niteflirt or MY STORE

Call My Ignore Line during My birthday, sure I won’t be able to talk to you, but each moment spent on the line with Me will contribute to My Birthday Celebrations!

There are so many ways you can contribute to My having an excellent Birthday! Wouldn’t it feel good to know you made the day of My birth that much better.

Pay for My Training Camp

May 13, 2016 by Ms Ambre Jadein Femdom, Findom

Want a chance similar to what I mentioned in My Ultimate Findom Experience post? Here is your chance. It’s not quite as exclusive, as this is something that happens annually but it is special none the less. I am offering you the chance to pay for My karate training camp this summer (well late spring).

My training takes place over three days. These are three vigorous days of sweating, exercise, pain and… well you get the idea. I love this training camp. I have been preparing for it along side My black belt.

Wouldn’t it feel good to pay for this experience? To send Me to My training camp? Not only that, I will be taking pictures while I am there, of Myself only, for a June project as well as to share the experience with My followers. I am offering 3 exclusive images that will only be shared with the person who sends Me to camp, lucky you!

If you are not in a position to pay the whole thing, and you want to receive images of the camp (not including the exclusive ones, those are for the one willing to pay), you can sign up to receive the image, pay before hand, and receive them in your inbox. Another chance to be a lucky boy!

OR Send via Giftrocket to AmbientAmbre@gmail.com

UPDATE 05/20/16

A lucky boy sent Me the half the amount for My camp. What a good boy he is! I am so pleased with him! That gives you the chance to contribute to My training camp without paying for the full thing. Amounts have been updated to half the amount of My trip!

So many opportunities for you to let go and embrace being My follower!

À bientôt,

Mistress Ambre Jade

An Ultimate Experience in Findom

April 28, 2016 by Ms Ambre Jadein Femdom, Findom1 Comment

Some will tell you the ultimate experience in findom has a dollar value attached to it, well it always does. But it is less about the amount when I look at it, it is more about the pleasure you can derive from giving something that no one else can offer your Maîtresse. For some, it is spending an amount of money on Her happiness, so high that no other could possibly compete with it. For others, it is offering something that makes your Mistress’ life better. For My puppy, his ultimate experience in findom came from an unlikely source. he paid for My black belt exam. Now, I know, you might be reading this and thinking so what? It is not some large monetary value, it does not affect Mistress’ happiness as it would have happened anyway, so why is this a big deal?

It is a big deal because no one else can claimed they bought this for Me. No other individual can make an offer that compares (until My Nidan exam 😉 ). his sacrifice to Me assured him a place in My memories and My memory in his bank account.

The ultimate experience in findom will vary from person to person. What makes one slave eager to give and enjoy the pleasure in giving is not necessarily the same trigger another slave will feel. Many financial domination enthusiasts will give purely knowing that they are so inferior by comparison that their only use is monetary and making sure their Goddess feels a certain amount of pleasure.

What would your ultimate experience in findom look like? Would you feel more pleasure in sending a larger amount or in the knowledge that you have purchased something no one else can?

Now, I love tributes, don’t get Me wrong, money brings Me quite a bit of satisfaction but there is something about a slave paying for something specific that they know will help My lifestyle that is incredibly satisfying. Not only does it mean they are putting My lifestyle ahead of theirs but they are also familiar with Me as an individual as well as a Goddess! There is something terribly special about that.

À bientôt,

Mistress Ambre Jade

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Why Send Tributes?

September 9, 2015 by Ms Ambre Jadein Femdom, Findom1 Comment

An important part of the submissive experience is the action of offering tributes. This is very clear to those who enjoy financial Domination. It is not only findom connoisseurs who should tribute and who can enjoy offering tribute. Every submissive should both practice and understand why tributes are such an important part of the experience.

Why Send Tributes?

Because … it is proof that you recognise that time is money. Especially where you Dominant is concerned
Because … it shows your Mistress you care more for Her luxuries than your own
Because … Financial Domination is a thing and you might be into it more than you realise
Because … She deserves that and more
Because … it makes sense, Goddess is providing a service, if you enjoyed that service it makes sense to show Her
Because … everyone likes gifts, receiving and giving
Because … even if it is not someone you serve regularly, chances are offering tribute will mean She will remember your previous encounters
Because … it’s a pleasure you can offer
Because … She is the reason you feel so good. Remind Her that you appreciate Her efforts
Because … it just feels so good to submit every part of your being to Her, especially your wallet

There are more reasons to send tribute, different ways you can sacrifice for your Domme. The important part is to think about why you are doing it. To notice and share changes within yourself as you tribute. your submission is the ultimate gift BUT tributes remind Me how much you appreciate My taking that control.

What is your favourite way to tribute? Are your reasons different than the ones listed here? Let Me know!

À bientôt,

Maîtresse Ambre Jade

Just a Quick

September 23, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Femdom, Findom

Just a quick moment to say Good boy!

Financial Domination, where do you fit in?

September 2, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Fetish, Findom

It can be confusing, I suppose, the world of financial domination. With so many different manifestations of findom and so many different ways to express it, an individual can easily get lost. I get it. But it is important that you are aware of your own place. In order to know your place it has to be outlined for you, well most of you since when interacting with Me the blood seems to flow away from your brain and you become imbeciles.

So where do you fit in? At what niveau is your devotion to financial domination? There is nothing wrong with being where you are but an individual should be aware of where they fit in, where they want to go. I have a simple enough system of categories, easy to follow. And yes, you might fit between categories or find yourself not well represented within My system. That is the wonderful part of financial domination with Me, it is always evolving.

The Customer

The customer archetype is an individual who submits through purchase. Usually files or games. The domination is minimal but still very real. Unlike others the customer expects and receives something in return for their money. It could be argued that the customer does not even belong as an archetype of findomme.

The Client/Caller

The client or caller spends much of their money to spend one on one time with Me. This is either through phone, cam or text. The client archetype tributes as well. The domination aspect comes from the amount of time they are spending with Me, the minute rate. Which can be played with as well.

The Fetishist

Those with a fetish, a sexualised need to have your finances dominated but still want some interaction as well. This are the tributes, the sacrifices, the gifts. Sometimes there is an interaction between us but not always. For some this represents itself as “drive-by” gifting or tributes. The fetishist is a complex archetype with many, many ways it presents itself.

The Financial Domination submissive

The submissive requires an interaction, a wallet draining or raping. Though completely committed to funding My lifestyle, the submissive requires attention, a reminder that they belong to Me. That they are Mine. The submission comes through their wallet before anything else.

The Financial slave

Oh what a lovely archetype the financial domination slave is. There is no interaction, they delight solely in the knowledge that their money in sustaining My lifestyle. There is no interaction, no back and forth. Money goes from their hand and into Mine. Many refer to these as “pay pigs” or similar titles. I think slavery is a better description. A slave provides for its Owner.

So where do you fit in? Where do you want to fit in?

How do you approach a Domme when looking for Financial Domination?

The first step is to always send a tribute. Send an email with it if you must, talking about what type of relationship you are looking for. The important part is proving you are actually looking for a proper Financial Domme. All too often I receive messages, emails and texts of people begging Me to dominate them financially. Well, if you are not willing to part with a small tribute to prove you are serious, you are not worth My time.

Difference Between Sacrifice and Tribute

July 7, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Femdom, Findom

Kneel in devotion! Tribute and Sacrifice

Not everyone makes a distinction between sacrifice and tribute. There is nothing wrong with that but to Me there are some important key differences. Both are signs of devotion to Me. Both make Me very happy with your performance as a submissive. Both can be component of Financial Domination but not necessarily.

What is a Tribute?

A tribute is a bonus, if you will. An added dimension to prove that you are worth your place in the Doctrine of Ambre Jade. To show that you appreciate the time and the effort I put in to the Doctrine, creating a stimulating and ideal place of worship. Tributes are made out of compulsion, that need to make Me happy and pleased with you as an individual slave.

What is a Sacrifice?

When I discuss daily sacrifice, it is the exchange of an everyday luxury for Me. Instead of purchasing some over priced, super sweet bullshit coffee concoction, you take that money and send it to Me. Sacrifice is the great equalizer. Where not everyone is in a position to tribute 500$ a week, everyone can find something they can go without so that they can contribute to Me! It allows Me to see a clear representation of how devoted one truly is. For some a 500$ tribute means nothing to them financially, it never affects their bottom line. For others, the idea of tributing such an amount would cause them financial ruin. Sacrifice allows them to prove they are willing to suffer for My pleasure. It is a greater sign of devotion in many cases.

What about Gifting?

I view gifting as an extension of a tribute. In some cases the more personal the gift the better, it proves that My devoted slave understand the individual (Me) and not just the experience of worship. Don’t get Me wrong, a gift from anyone in any capacity is lovely.

What about FinDomme?

Sacrifice and tribute are both components of financial domination. When I am controlling your wallet you are expected to make sacrifices and tributes as well as gifts. But I also believe that FinDomme should be approached as a contract. That you debt to Me should have a clear amount, a clear beginning and a clear end. The fun lays in between. View My FinDomme Contract.

Kneel for your Déesse

Maîtresse Ambre Jade

Findom Hypnosis

February 21, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Findom, Sessions6 Comments

Let Me start out by stating that I do not participate in findom hypnosis or findom itself. Well not in the current mainstream sense anyway. Maybe it is not even the mainstream, I am mainly referring to the random tweets that make their way across My twitter feed or My facebook feed. you know the type; “#paypig #loser #tributeme pay me loser” style of messaging. I understand that people enjoy this type of play. I make no judgments beyond stating that this style or behaviour is most definitely not for Me or Mine or anyone who wishes to be Mine. There are several reasons, I will start at the top using the above quote as an example (the above quote is merely an amalgamation of various tweets and re-tweets that made their way onto My twitter feed early this morning, I was planning on writing about hypnosis when I woke up.)

For starters, I do not take on a loser as a sub, the mere fact that you want to please Me makes you a winner. I know it is not all that humiliating being reminded that you made some good choices it your life ie worshiping Me, but it is true. And I do not believe, in fact, I cannot believe that merely enjoying findom makes you a loser. Findom and by extension findom hypnosis are about power, giving it away in every part of your life, no the fact that you cannot get laid or no girl wants to touch your peepee or whatever random childish remark I have received that is sitting in My email junk box.

Financial domination is about power and control. More on that in a second though, I would like to continue focusing that My make believe tweet. The term “paypig” now I happen to enjoy this word. I have used it when speaking, teasing, abusing submissives. Everything is with a context. To explain why I enjoy the term, let Me share with you an example. I have a sub, his name is not important, he is Mine completely and that is all that matters. Generally, our scenes do not involve tributes or payments, we play because I enjoy playing with him. But I digress, so our scenes generally do not involve any sort of findom. Sometimes, I enjoy reminding him what I deserve, basically everything. When I do that, he starts to snort, and thus the creation of the paypig in him. He will then tribute or gift or whatever. In this case, he is My pay piggy. I do not believe in sending mass messages calling people paypigs. But like I said, there are no judgments here, obviously we all have different followers and a different way of playing financial domination games. Everyone has what they enjoy.

From a personal taste stand point, I do not get off on telling people to send Me shit. Okay, perhaps that needs to be rephrased, I do not get off telling people what to do without working up to it. I enjoy the slow burn into your mind. I enjoy it when you are begging Me to send Me things! Not because I asked you to but rather because you know I deserve anything that I should want. Financial domination is about Me deserving your money more than you. But I also believe I have to deserve it. A picture of a dildo next to My voluptuous ass does not, in My opinion, deserve gifts. I deserve gifts when I take the time to fuck with your brain and remind you what is Mine and what should be Mine. Perhaps this is the intention of those who throw pictures out. Maybe to Them, Their physical traits remind the sub how perfect Their Mistress is. That is just not the way I roll!

I like findom hypnosis when it is within specific parametres. When there is a discussion beforehand. As you may or may not be aware, I LOVE protocols and the discussions that take place when figuring out the individual protocols that will be attached to you. Financial domination should have protocols and limitations. At least in the beginning of the relationship! For some, My style of wanting to discuss, check in, negotiate, etc. is not all that attractive, they enjoy being referred to as paypiggies or loser or (add appropriate synonym) and there is nothing wrong with that. There is something wrong with wanting that if you are wanting it with Me.

Findom for Me, is about power and sacrifice. What are you willing to not get today so that you may please your Goddess? She should never have to ask! This is important, even if I am not your Goddess or Mistress or whatever, even if you do not worship Me, the Woman you do worship deserved gifts WITHOUT asking for them. you should find a way to prove that you are willing to go without so that She can have something! It does not even have to be big, say you normally buy a coffee on the way to work, well for one month every morning when you would normally buy your coffee, you send that tribute to Her. It is tiny but after a month it becomes a nice sum and it proves that you as Her worshiper are willing to go without so that She may receive.

Financial Domination is a huge thing! It should but should also be respected. If you have a contract, respect it, if you appreciate your Goddess’ time, show it! There is more to being a submissive than the ability to follow orders. Show that you will make a willing sacrifice without even being asked!

À bientôt,

Ambre Jade

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