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The follow blog posts are a representation of Femdom and the Female Domination experience as told by Ambre Jade.
Femdom, Female Domination is the foundation upon which all my work is based. This component of my own sexuality is represented in these posts as well as how it may play out when you decide to pursue a session with me. It is not a game, it is a lifestyle for me. It brings together the vast majority of fetishes and sexual avenues in which I enjoy reading, writing and living.

Femdom discussions include topics such as BDSM, power exchange, Ds relationships, the dynamics between male and female counterparts. Find yourself learning more and increasing your submission and acceptance of a Female Dominated experience.

Read and enjoy. Feel your desire to submit increase with every bit of text. Find yourself craving this genre of sensual experience with each passing moment. Submission can be the ultimate freedom. And submitting to a woman is certainly most apt.

October #FOTM: SpH

October 1, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Femdom, Fetish

October is going to be a fun ass month!!! sph, small penis humiliation is the #FOTM for us at the Femdom Devotionals forum! So much fun. I have talked about both the #FOTM and Our forum before so I will not get into that but sph 😀 So fun!

I love this fetish! The funniest part about sph when I am on one on one sessions with people is that about 75% of the people I talk to feel the need to tell Me that in reality it isn’t as small as they claim during the session. What a hilarious response! I mean, cher, doesn’t matter how big or small you are, we will not be fucking! Do you do that? Do you feel the need to express your actual size? Maybe it is a component of the aftercare necessary on the part of the sub. I still find it amusing!

So what can you look forward to this month from Myself, Empress Vox Siren and Princess Indigo this month? SO many things!!! We haven’t completely figured out Our schedule but let Me tell you, the shit We have come up with for you is fucking golden! Brutal but erotic as fuck! you weaklings will have no idea what has hit you until it is too late!

But What is SpH?

Small penis Humiliation is usual a verbal assault on your manhood or rather lack there of! Everyone has a different way of approaching it, a different way it manifests in Their sessions. One of My favourite things to do is force you to find an instrument of measure, a ruler, a penis, something where size comparison is obvious and force you to voice what a teenie tiny weenie you have! It’s fucking delicious when you realise you are completely ill equipped when it comes to satisfying Me in a sexual way. All you can offer is your humiliation for My entertainment! My being entertained is important.

Are you the owner of a teenie weenie? Is it so small you have never felt anything while fucking another person? Tell Me about it! And pay your teenie weenie tax!

Teenie Weenie Tax:

À bientôt,

Maîtresse Ambre Jade

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Day 4 and 5: Kinky Experiences

October 1, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Femdom4 Comments

Let’s talk about some kinky experiences! So I am combining Day 4 and 5 of My 30 Days of kink for a few reasons, first off, I am behind in My writing and want to write an actual blog post today 😉 and second, they seem to fit well together!

Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?

Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience? If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen.

Well as I discussed yesterday, Day 3, I have really always been kinky. But there were some early kinky experiences that, in retrospect, hinted at My current identifier as a Domme. I always had a thing for teasing, what I would now describe as torturous tease and denial sessions were My Saturday nights, combined with some forced exposing. I always loved how people would react to the tiniest touches of My fingers, how the breathing would change, how desperately their hips would try to rock in hopes of My fingers applying more pressure or even allowing a release. These reactions were always done in front of My current lover but never with. (I prelude to My love of cuckolding, perhaps)! There was something about both those boys suffering at My hands that was so deeply satisfying. The specific kinky experience I am playing in My mind, the one I am writing about, involved someone who was My boyfriend (I guess you would call him, remember I was quite young, young enough I do not want to state My age on here) and a mutual friend. There were several of us, just sitting around doing, well, we were smoking things 😉 So a group of easily about 8 people. Including Myself, My boyfriend at the time and the boy I really enjoyed teasing! I still remember quite clearly sliding My fingers over the teased boy’s pants, the feel of him hard under his pants, touching the head while staring right into the eyes of My boyfriend. Wow, the clarity of this memory is actually quite shocking, I had all but forgotten about these moments, these hidden times with friends. I suppose this was the real moment where it first came up.

It’s funny because during this kinky experience, I honestly had no idea how deviant this behaviour actually is. I mean, I suppose compared to My current fetishes and kinks this looks like innocent touching between friends, but I doubt those two men have the same perception of their boyhood experiences with Me. To them the torture was so clear right away. I enjoyed that feeling, that power. There being witnesses to their surrender to Me only added to the experience, I had always been an exhibitionist. I wonder how they remember these moments. As I am writing this all down I am still amazed at how clear the memory is, how I can feel the sensations under My fingers each time I strike the keys. Maybe because that was the first circumcised cock I had every touched…

So there it is, My early kinky experiences, not even what I thought the answer would be, went even earlier into My reflection and remembered this… I think I should call them 🙂

À bientôt,

Maîtresse Ambre Jade

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Day 3: Kinky Discovery

September 30, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Femdom4 Comments

I have always been kinky. So having this sudden kinky discovery moment does not exist for Me! Though My kinks have certainly evolved over time. Read about 30 Days of Kink!

I remember when My sexual experiences only manifested as fantasy, I mean before I had even had sex. I remember all My fantasies involved or had some aspect of kink to them. I never fantasised about vanilla sex. There was always some form of power exchange. Binding, being bound were the first ones. Multiple partners of varying gender, the use of violence during fucking, choice being removed. Things of that nature.

When I finally involve others in My sexual experiences they were almost always kinky. My first lover and I were complete exhibitionists. (Oh how things change lol)! Part of the intensity involved in our love making was that anyone could see at any moment and many times there were others watching. We involved other women, we would tie each other up. He was a very good person to have as a first lover. His hedonism was matched by Mine and together we explored. Now keep in mind we were quite young, so our kinky discovery was somewhat limited by school, family, curfews, laws, etc! We were each game for anything the other suggested.

As time went by there were lovers, there were one night stands, there were many things that continued in My hedonist expression of sex. My more extreme kinky discovery happened after a long period of time of celibacy (a story for another time, if ever). I took on a lover, who was amazing! He was both an exceptional lover and incredibly submissive. Though, I do not think he completely realised the extent he was willing to submit but story for another time. He loved getting pegged, he loved wearing My panties. He was incredibly open to so many experiences and I fell that through his acceptance I began to flower as the Domme I am today. This is where I began seeing Myself as a bit more Dominant. I suppose this discussion should wait until DAY 4! Let’s just say, for now, that I began to bloom. The seeds that wear originally planted in My early youth began to grow roots and try to find their way to the surface.

Day 2: List your kinks

September 27, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Femdom1 Comment

My Kinks? Day 2 of the 30 Days of Kink! Seems like an easy enough question to answer but like everything I make it complicated 😉 I can find many, many things to be sexually stimulating, some things I would have never thought of until I have the right partner. Also there are a few kinks I have that I prefer to keep to Myself as I do not want them to bleed into My work Self. If that makes sense.

My biggest kink is Mind Control and Mental BDSM. I love using hypnosis and other techniques to control every aspect of another’s mind. This passion runs deep within Me. Anything involving an exchange of power, control over another is such an erotic thing to Me. Though hypnosis and NLP are My main ways to flex My muscles as it were, there are so many other things I enjoy. Physical bondage, there are few things sweeter than a sub all roped up waiting on Me. Forcing My will on them. Orgasm control, forced masturbation, CFMn, the list goes on. There are just so many things I enjoy.

I enjoy keeping My slaves chaste, I want every single erotic thought to have Me in it. Every time you get aroused and have no ability to release or touch even. Reminders that your key is around My neck.

I love scenes of interrogation. Using My control over you or physically forcing you to tell the truth, to get to an answer, to get the result I want. There is a HUGE part of Me that likes analysis. I enjoy analyzing every way you respond, every answer you give Me, every quickening within your body. I love just finding out more.

I am slightly sadistic and therefore I enjoy inflicting a certain amount of torture over another person. CBT, pussy or nipple torture all things I enjoy giving, things I enjoy watching you try to deal with.

Everything comes down to power exchange for Me. Everything I do. I am open to so many different kinks, I have yet to experience a kink that I have not enjoyed. OK, no that is a lie, there are some things I do not enjoy and that will be talked about later in this series.

Let’s for a moment talk about My kinks in terms of what I fantasize about when I masturbate, (yes, I do masturbate 😉 ) for Me, I have always had a thing for puppy play. It is all about the build up for Me. I like to visualise My inspection of the puppy before I take them on. Of judging them on their responses to My touches or how they hold themselves, things of that nature. For Me that is My strongest fantasy at the moment.

À bientôt,

Maîtresse Ambre Jade

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Day 1: Dom, sub or Switch

September 26, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Femdom1 Comment

This is Day One, in My 30 days of kink; Dom, sub or switch?

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

I am most definitely a Domme (Dom, in the format of the question)! I have briefly and recently discussed My past experiences as a Switch on the FORUM so I will not get into that here. I believe what made Me actually feel like a switch or a sub in My past was that for a short time I could easily identify as a masochist. It could have been more a stage of exploration and discovery but I did self identify as such. These masochistic tendencies are what brought Me to the world of BDSM.

Though, I no longer identify as submissive, switch or masochist, I am grateful for the experiences and the sensation I felt while enjoy those scenes. Without them, I would not have been able to find My true calling as a Domme. I know there are many people who will read this and think that having subbed in the past makes Me less Dominant but you can kiss My ass. I owe you no explanation. I believe in honesty above all things and therefore My disclosure of past experiences.

I believe My time spent subbing and switching as well as My time experiencing torturous scene has created an incredibly well grounded, well educated, well rounded Domme.

Definitions are always difficult for Me. Especially when it comes to aspects of sexuality. Since sensuality, sexuality and kink are so fluid and the relationship within them so different from individual to individual it is difficult to create and apt definition.

I believe what makes a Domme, the main characteristic She has that let’s you know She is the one for you, is the ability to create an environment where the submissive can flourish. A relationship where the sub, slave, whatever descriptor you want to use, can blossom into something more than they were before their service. This applies to just about any D/s relationship. The qualities of a Domme and the qualities of a submissive is sooo dependent on the style of relationship they have.

My Dominance stems from a love of control, a need even. I micromanage, I am obsessive about things being done MY way. And though in some relationships that would be considered a negative, the style of relationships I have makes this quality a big plus 😉 It is one of the biggest attraction to BDSM that I have. I have discovered that I am slightly sadistic. What started as a curiosity and exploration as a maso was, retrospectively, a cry for knowledge about pain and an inability to morally get over Myself. This is a discussion that deserves its own post so I will get to that eventually 🙂

Being Dominant, is having power and using that power to mould your sub into your desire while simultaneously allowing them the oportunity to grow and bloom in Your service. This is what I hold Myself to and part of why I am so particular about who I am willing to take on as a permanent slave, PT or FT!

What are your definitions? How do you see yourself? Are you a Dom, sub or switch? Join this journey of 30 days of kink with Me and many others!

À bientôt,

Maîtresse Ambre Jade

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30 Days Of Kink

September 25, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Femdom14 Comments

I have seen this 30 days of kink pop up everywhere most recently on the blog of one Miss Pearl whom I adore! Her blog is fantastic and you should read it but I digress! I have seen this pop up in a variety of places and each time think to Myself, damn I should do that! So here I am doing it!

I would also like to encourage others to partake. I can add links to your blogs below these instructions and really create a great list! Each day in this 30 days of kink activity is a new question, a new focus. It does not have to be done everyday. I will try but I am not promising I will manage, I am a busy Woman. This will be My post for today and I will start day 1 tomorrow!

30 days of kink breakdown:

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us. Find it HERE!

Day 2: List your kinks. Find it HERE!

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky? Find it HERE!

Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks? Find it HERE!

Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience? If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen. Find it HERE!

Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy. Find it HERE!

Day 7: What’s your favorite toy?

Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic.

Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy.

Day 10: What are your hard limits?

Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?

Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had. If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.

Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?

Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?

Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.

Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?

Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?

Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? If so, what are they?

Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life? If so, what are they?

Day 20: Talk about something within kink/bdsm that you’re curious about/don’t understand.

Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction)

Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?

Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so?

Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?

Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?

Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?

Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?

Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you?

Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)? What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?

Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about.

This list is from Insatiable Desire, another great blog to check out!

Others partaking in 30 Days of Kink:

I will add as they come in, leave your site in the comments section or email Me AmbientAmbre@gmail.com

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Just a Quick

September 23, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Femdom, Findom

Just a quick moment to say Good boy!

How to Spank Over the Phone

September 23, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Femdom, Fetish, Sessions

September’s #FOTM wrapping up and I finally get around to talking about how to Spank over the Phone! Well I talk a little about it 🙂 I randomly decided to give you the luxury of hearing My voice as I am not really in the mood to write! So enjoy the gift of listening to Me!

Spanking #FOTM

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Pick a player, they are both the same, depending on your browser you might to pick one of the other. Also you can download it clicking the downward arrow beside the first!

À bientôt,

Maîtresse Ambre Jade

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PS Yes, I could have edited things out but I didn’t feel like it. My puppy was making Me laugh while I was recording!

Embracing Being A BBW Goddess

September 21, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Femdom, Hypnosis9 Comments

Throughout all My experiences there is no message clearly than a Woman’s need to embrace who She is. For Me, this means embracing being a BBW Goddess. I recently received some not so constructive criticism from an anonymous source. their main critique: The size of My ass! Well, yeah it’s big! I would even go so far as to say it is large! I mean look it! As large as it is, look at the shape. Round, strong, tight for all its size! Perfection is not just what societal norms have you believe. Perfect comes from being who you are.

I love My body, I love being a BBW Goddess! I feel none of the shame this man (or woman, as it was anonymous) thinks I should! I work hard on My body. I work out several times a week, I eat well, mostly organic and rarely meat. I take care of My Goddess shaped vessel! If it makes you uncomfortable that I do not fit in a size 3 then by all means, no one is asking you to worship Me, no one is forcing you to devote your existence to Me. That is a choice. I have followers, I do not need any that criticize some so arbitrary.

I have nothing to justify in My size. I am the way I am. Being a fat, yeah let’s use that word. Fat is not always a negative. I am a fat Woman! I am a big, beautiful Woman. There is nothing to apologise for. There is nothing to explain it. It is the way it. Yes, I could explain all the reasons why I am not a size three. I could list off the reasons My bottom is so big. But why should I? Why does there need to be a reason? I am a BBW Goddess. I am the way the universe made Me. I am gorgeous, I am Dominant and I do not care that some coward is upset about My ass being fat. I am proud of it! I am pleased with it! I treat My body like the temple it is and you should do the same!

À bientôt,

Maîtresse Ambre Jade

1 888 726-2447

Cock Hungry Bois

September 16, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Femdom, Sessions3 Comments

I know you don’t want to admit it, to tell the truth about yourself, that you are one of those cock hungry bois. That you close your eyes and dream about shoving a real man’s big dick into your sissy mouth. The fact is though you do! you think about it and your minuscule excuse for a penis tries so hard to get stiff, to grow. It’s a little intimidating isn’t it? Especially while you are watching those big, massive dicks being stroked by their owners. The whole thing just makes Me want to laugh at you. How pathetic and weak you are, dreaming about sucking that which you will never own.

you could not even dream of owning it because in reality you are nothing but a teenie weenie cock hungry boi. Yes, I hear about these bois wishing nothing more than a hard, long, impossibly thick cock being jammed down their throats. Oh to witness such things. To watch you gag and squirm pushing your head down on it for you. you are so pathetic. Forced bi sissies are a special breed aren’t they? At least they know how to entertain. How to put on a good show for Me.

you will confess your cock hungry desires to Me. Cry over how teenie tiny your sad excuse for a dick is. Wishing someone would fill your mouth while the tears stream down your face. Now doesn’t that feel better? Knowing your can entertain Me in some way. Being one of My cock hungry bois! you are already thinking about it, dreaming about it. It is time for you to show Me just how bad you want to be My bitch.

you read, you need to confess it and you need to pay for it. Teenie weenies have no real purpose but to please Me in the only way they can, a show and a tax!

Teenie Weenie Tax:

À bientôt,

Maîtresse Ambre Jade