Every single time I take a bath, I am reminder of the absolute bliss that is being submerged in water. The calming effect of water is not something that should be ignored. For Me, the effect is not limited to submersion but also just about any moment where water and My skin connects, be it in the rain, shower, bath, swimming, you get the idea. I realise that not everyone feels as connected to water as I do. That not everyone responds to the summer rain with glee and the urge to dance around nude, but there is no denying that water can be calming and comforting.
This calming effect, the comfort some individuals find when water surrounds them, in My opinion, is the result of the memory of being safe and secure within their Mother’s womb. I am sure some will argue with Me. I believe this correlation is not something to be ignored, it is in fact something that should be considered when creating an erotic hypnosis environment. I am not trying to fetishize your early conception environment but rather exaggerate, expand on the feelings of comfort and safety that were (in most cases) so tangible even when our memory fails us.
I cannot stress enough the importance of trust and security where hypnosis is concerned, erotic or not. Yes, there are files and environments where you want the blood to pump aggressively and the environment to cause your heart to skip some beats but when initiating the trance, when deepening the trance that sense of calm, that safety is not to be ignored. Giving yourself over to another person, giving your mind over to a HypnoDomme is something that requires a similar sense of security you had in the womb. you have no control over what happens to you, the environment is changed to suit another’s will but you feel safe. you trust. you can constantly rely on the calming effect of water surrounding your being.
The connections to our past experiences are important. They shape us, whether or not we are aware of their influence. My influence, My control work with your being and the experiences that created the person that is you. A skilled Hypnotist keeps this in mind and understand that every experience, even early conception can be opposed through hypnosis and can be either exploited, expounded or exaggerated. Like the calming effect of water.
Goddess Ambre Jade
It seems to Me that everyone responds differently to various erotic hypnotic stimuli. For some their hypnotic submission is so complete a single word passing from between My lips causes their mind to open completely and obey without a single question or concern. For others, they have a similar response to certain trigger words, some created through post hypnotic suggestion and some just have exaggerated responses to specific words. Good boy is a popular one and a personal favourite of Mine. Though its use has become far to common place for Me. I desire being different. Plus, this post is not about post hypnotic suggestion. This is about the different responses and different levels of hypnotic submission.
One could easily argue that the variety of hypnotic submission can easily be attributed to conditioning, to the frequency with which you submit to erotic hypnosis. Though I do believe there is a certain truth to that, I do not believe it is the only factor at play. Some individuals are just more naturally incline to hypnotic submission. Letting go for them is completely effortless. This niveau, level of hypnotic submission does not necessarily make these individual BETTER in any way. Easier perhaps but you know what they say “easy come, easy go.” In My experience those that do not feel you are challenging them are more likely to be a short term submissive. Generalisation? Absolutely! But true to a certain extent. This is why I make it My purpose to make sure there is always a higher hypnotic submission niveau for you to travel to!
When hypnotic submission is more challenging, the relationship tends to last longer. Both the subject and the Hypnotist have a certain determination to create a more complete submission. For Me, anyway, I find this type of relationship appealing. There is a certain challenge in assuring that both subject and Hypnotist do not get bored. Yeah, sometimes I get bored and it makes Me not want to pursue a deeper niveau of hypnotic submission from you.
There are many subtle different shades. Individual are not necessarily one or the other. Someone can fall in between. Even more interesting in My oppinion is that an individual can normal be a challenging subject but once they find the right erotic Hypnotist, their hypnotic submission becomes more quick and easy! Where do you fall on this? Do you believe conditioning is the main factor? Do you believe your natural state is more at play? Or do you believe it depends on the Hypnotist and how you two mesh together?
Be on the look out for Part 2 of this discussion into hypnotic submission.
Goddess Ambre Jade