30 Days Of Kink


30daysI have seen this 30 days of kink pop up everywhere most recently on the blog of one Miss Pearl whom I adore! Her blog is fantastic and you should read it but I digress! I have seen this pop up in a variety of places and each time think to Myself, damn I should do that! So here I am doing it!

I would also like to encourage others to partake. I can add links to your blogs below these instructions and really create a great list! Each day in this 30 days of kink activity is a new question, a new focus. It does not have to be done everyday. I will try but I am not promising I will manage, I am a busy Woman. This will be My post for today and I will start day 1 tomorrow!

30 days of kink breakdown:

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch?  What parts of BDSM interest you?  Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us. Find it HERE!

Day 2: List your kinks. Find it HERE!

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky? Find it HERE!

Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks? Find it HERE!

Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience?  If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen. Find it HERE!

Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy. Find it HERE!

Day 7: What’s your favorite toy?

Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic.

Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy.

Day 10: What are your hard limits?

Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?

Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had.  If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.

Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you?  Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?

Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink?  If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?

Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.

Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?

Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?

Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves?  If so, what are they?

Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life?  If so, what are they?

Day 20:  Talk about something within kink/bdsm that you’re curious about/don’t understand.

Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction)

Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy?  How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?

Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed?  How so?

Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?

Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?

Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?

Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?

Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play?  What significance does your attire have to you?

Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)?  What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?

Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about.

This list is from Insatiable Desire, another great blog to check out!

Others partaking in 30 Days of Kink:

I will add as they come in, leave your site in the comments section or email Me AmbientAmbre@gmail.com

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