The Trust Factor

The trust factor is often either overlooked or taken for granted within the Hypnotist-subject dynamic. In My experience, most people assume that trust has been established through virtue of having a single communication. And while you can trust the intentions of your Hypnotist from a single encounter, the deeper, almost palpable trust connection takes time to really establish itself. Each interaction solidifies the initial feelings of trust and helps manifest as a truly trusting relationship. Why is trust so important? Can Hypnotists succeed without trust? How does this pertain to erotic hypnosis and should it be something we strive for?

The Importance of the Trust Factor

I talk about trust a lot. It plays an important role in all our relationships from your neighbour to your Domme, your partner. We have so many relationships and so many of them deepen when the trust factor is taken into account. An individual trusts that their neighbours will not break into their home. Trust. If you don’t know them, you will be more hesitant to open your door to them. The trust factor allows relationships to extent past their default setting. When you trust, you are more likely to open up and step out of your comfort zone. When looking at a power dynamic, like D-s or Hypnotist-subject, trust allows you to explore things more deeply. Something simple like spanking, for example, can be seen as abusive but with the trust factor in place, what can be perceived as an assault becomes erotic, sensual. Erotic Hypnosis works under a similar premise. If you trust your Hypnotist, then the deeper you are able to go.

Erotic Hypnosis Without Trust

Erotic hypnosis can be experienced without trust. It is not essential to a superficial hypnotic experience. Without trust though, the experience becomes just that superficial, with a deeper dynamic. While it can be fun, and is generally the starting point to most Hypnotist-subject relationship, it’s potential without trust is limited. The trance can be deep but it will not be representative of the potential when trust is in place.

Ultimately, trust should be the goal of any interaction you have. It is less important that the Hypnotist trust the subject. Depending on the goal(s) of your relationship, a Hypnotist needs you to trust Her and not the other way around. That being said though, as a HypnoDomme, I like the trust fact to go both ways. I am more inclined to be creative with subjects that I trust, as well as more open with My Own experiences when we are talking.

So in the future, to let go and trance more effectively , focus instead on building trust rather than the trance itself. The trance will happen either way, but the extent of which will be determined by the trust factor.

À bientôt,

Goddess Ambre Jade

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The Calming Effect of Water

Every single time I take a bath, I am reminder of the absolute bliss that is being submerged in water. The calming effect of water is not something that should be ignored. For Me, the effect is not limited to submersion but also just about any moment where water and My skin connects, be it in the rain, shower, bath, swimming, you get the idea. I realise that not everyone feels as connected to water as I do. That not everyone responds to the summer rain with glee and the urge to dance around nude, but there is no denying that water can be calming and comforting.

The Calming Effect of Water with Ambre JadeThis calming effect, the comfort some individuals find when water surrounds them, in My opinion, is the result of the memory of being safe and secure within their Mother’s womb. I am sure some will argue with Me. I believe this correlation is not something to be ignored, it is in fact something that should be considered when creating an erotic hypnosis environment. I am not trying to fetishize your early conception environment but rather exaggerate, expand on the feelings of comfort and safety that were (in most cases) so tangible even when our memory fails us.

I cannot stress enough the importance of trust and security where hypnosis is concerned, erotic or not. Yes, there are files and environments where you want the blood to pump aggressively and the environment to cause your heart to skip some beats but when initiating the trance, when deepening the trance that sense of calm, that safety is not to be ignored. Giving yourself over to another person, giving your mind over to a HypnoDomme is something that requires a similar sense of security you had in the womb. you have no control over what happens to you, the environment is changed to suit another’s will but you feel safe. you trust. you can constantly rely on the calming effect of water surrounding your being.

The connections to our past experiences are important. They shape us, whether or not we are aware of their influence. My influence, My control work with your being and the experiences that created the person that is you. A skilled Hypnotist keeps this in mind and understand that every experience, even early conception can be opposed through hypnosis and can be either exploited, expounded or exaggerated. Like the calming effect of water.

À bientôt,

Goddess Ambre Jade


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