Day 2: List your kinks

KinksmMy Kinks? Day 2 of the 30 Days of Kink! Seems like an easy enough question to answer but like everything I make it complicated 😉 I can find many, many things to be sexually stimulating, some things I would have never thought of until I have the right partner. Also there are a few kinks I have that I prefer to keep to Myself as I do not want them to bleed into My work Self. If that makes sense.

My biggest kink is Mind Control and Mental BDSM. I love using hypnosis and other techniques to control every aspect of another’s mind. This passion runs deep within Me. Anything involving an exchange of power, control over another is such an erotic thing to Me. Though hypnosis and NLP are My main ways to flex My muscles as it were, there are so many other things I enjoy. Physical bondage, there are few things sweeter than a sub all roped up waiting on Me. Forcing My will on them. Orgasm control, forced masturbation, CFMn, the list goes on. There are just so many things I enjoy.

I enjoy keeping My slaves chaste, I want every single erotic thought to have Me in it. Every time you get aroused and have no ability to release or touch even. Reminders that your key is around My neck.

I love scenes of interrogation. Using My control over you or physically forcing you to tell the truth, to get to an answer, to get the result I want. There is a HUGE part of Me that likes analysis. I enjoy analyzing every way you respond, every answer you give Me, every quickening within your body. I love just finding out more.

I am slightly sadistic and therefore I enjoy inflicting a certain amount of torture over another person. CBT, pussy or nipple torture all things I enjoy giving, things I enjoy watching you try to deal with.

Everything comes down to power exchange for Me. Everything I do. I am open to so many different kinks, I have yet to experience a kink that I have not enjoyed. OK, no that is a lie, there are some things I do not enjoy and that will be talked about later in this series.

Let’s for a moment talk about My kinks in terms of what I fantasize about when I masturbate, (yes, I do masturbate 😉 ) for Me, I have always had a thing for puppy play. It is all about the build up for Me. I like to visualise My inspection of the puppy before I take them on. Of judging them on their responses to My touches or how they hold themselves, things of that nature. For Me that is My strongest fantasy at the moment.

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30 Days Of Kink


30daysI have seen this 30 days of kink pop up everywhere most recently on the blog of one Miss Pearl whom I adore! Her blog is fantastic and you should read it but I digress! I have seen this pop up in a variety of places and each time think to Myself, damn I should do that! So here I am doing it!

I would also like to encourage others to partake. I can add links to your blogs below these instructions and really create a great list! Each day in this 30 days of kink activity is a new question, a new focus. It does not have to be done everyday. I will try but I am not promising I will manage, I am a busy Woman. This will be My post for today and I will start day 1 tomorrow!

30 days of kink breakdown:

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch?  What parts of BDSM interest you?  Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us. Find it HERE!

Day 2: List your kinks. Find it HERE!

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky? Find it HERE!

Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks? Find it HERE!

Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience?  If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen. Find it HERE!

Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy. Find it HERE!

Day 7: What’s your favorite toy?

Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic.

Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy.

Day 10: What are your hard limits?

Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?

Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had.  If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.

Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you?  Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?

Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink?  If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?

Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.

Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?

Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?

Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves?  If so, what are they?

Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life?  If so, what are they?

Day 20:  Talk about something within kink/bdsm that you’re curious about/don’t understand.

Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction)

Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy?  How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?

Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed?  How so?

Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?

Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?

Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?

Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?

Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play?  What significance does your attire have to you?

Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)?  What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?

Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about.

This list is from Insatiable Desire, another great blog to check out!

Others partaking in 30 Days of Kink:

I will add as they come in, leave your site in the comments section or email Me

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