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Thoughts on Feminization

September 6, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Femdom, Fetish1 Comment

There are so many different ways feminization manifests itself. With such a large variety of ways to interpret feminization finding your place can be difficult. Finding the right guiding hand can be a challenge. The most important thing for you to know is the answer to this question:

Where do you want to be in a year?

It is a simple enough question but when trying to create your feminization journey it is so important. It is crucial for you to know where you want to be.

Why is this so important? Because it helps your Domme create the right regime, path, journey for you. I hear so many people tell Me, just turn Me into your girl and do what you want with Me. Well, I have touched on that before and I do not really feel like talking about it again so read up. Where was I? Oh yes, knowing where you want to be in a year. A year is a long time, you can easily use a shorter time frame. The point is, you have a sense of direction. A place you want to go.

As a Domme, I am not a mind reader. your initial thoughts and goals are important. Some of you are looking to become cock sluts and sissy whores while others are trying to start their journey into crossdressing or playing with the idea of living as a Woman in your day to day life. I know there are Dommes out there who follow Their own schedule for each person, and create wonderful journeys for everyone to follow. They are used to dealing with a specific type of client. I am and always have been incredibly flexible with My feminization clients.

I enjoy the diversity of having a multitude of cross dressing enthusiasts, sissies and feminization clients. I like that every individual is unique. As is the woman deep inside you, she is unique too. She wants to enter this world freely. She wants to be allowed freedom from the confines of your inferior male exterior. Let her free. Let her live. Let Me guide you in your journey to breath life into her being.

Just know the answer to that question. Know what direction you want to start your path. It is only the start! There are so many places I can take you.

Kneel for your Maîtresse

Ambre Jade

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Financial Domination, where do you fit in?

September 2, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Fetish, Findom

It can be confusing, I suppose, the world of financial domination. With so many different manifestations of findom and so many different ways to express it, an individual can easily get lost. I get it. But it is important that you are aware of your own place. In order to know your place it has to be outlined for you, well most of you since when interacting with Me the blood seems to flow away from your brain and you become imbeciles.

So where do you fit in? At what niveau is your devotion to financial domination? There is nothing wrong with being where you are but an individual should be aware of where they fit in, where they want to go. I have a simple enough system of categories, easy to follow. And yes, you might fit between categories or find yourself not well represented within My system. That is the wonderful part of financial domination with Me, it is always evolving.

The Customer

The customer archetype is an individual who submits through purchase. Usually files or games. The domination is minimal but still very real. Unlike others the customer expects and receives something in return for their money. It could be argued that the customer does not even belong as an archetype of findomme.

The Client/Caller

The client or caller spends much of their money to spend one on one time with Me. This is either through phone, cam or text. The client archetype tributes as well. The domination aspect comes from the amount of time they are spending with Me, the minute rate. Which can be played with as well.

The Fetishist

Those with a fetish, a sexualised need to have your finances dominated but still want some interaction as well. This are the tributes, the sacrifices, the gifts. Sometimes there is an interaction between us but not always. For some this represents itself as “drive-by” gifting or tributes. The fetishist is a complex archetype with many, many ways it presents itself.

The Financial Domination submissive

The submissive requires an interaction, a wallet draining or raping. Though completely committed to funding My lifestyle, the submissive requires attention, a reminder that they belong to Me. That they are Mine. The submission comes through their wallet before anything else.

The Financial slave

Oh what a lovely archetype the financial domination slave is. There is no interaction, they delight solely in the knowledge that their money in sustaining My lifestyle. There is no interaction, no back and forth. Money goes from their hand and into Mine. Many refer to these as “pay pigs” or similar titles. I think slavery is a better description. A slave provides for its Owner.

So where do you fit in? Where do you want to fit in?

How do you approach a Domme when looking for Financial Domination?

The first step is to always send a tribute. Send an email with it if you must, talking about what type of relationship you are looking for. The important part is proving you are actually looking for a proper Financial Domme. All too often I receive messages, emails and texts of people begging Me to dominate them financially. Well, if you are not willing to part with a small tribute to prove you are serious, you are not worth My time.

Puppy Play 101

July 15, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Femdom, Fetish, Sessions3 Comments

Puppy play is a true passion of Mine. I own and keep 2 puppies on a regular basis. One in house and one more long distance. I have broken both of them in perfectly and to My satisfaction. This is a long process. It has taken Me a long time to break them in just right. I do not expect their level of obedience with any new puppy.

What is puppy play?

Puppy play is a unique and stimulating representation of the D/s relationship. One individual (the Domme in My case) is the Owner or Trainer, I have also heard the term “Handler”. The other is the puppy or pet. It is a very obvious and satisfying dynamic. Everyone knows their place. It seems very straight forward. The Handler controls the action and behaviour of the pup.

Is puppy play erotic?

Puppy play can manifest itself in many ways. A large number of puppies I speak with, do not feel the need for sexual contact between their Owner and themselves. They feel having the puppy mentality is satisfying enough! The disappearance of their human qualities and characteristics becomes their satisfaction. There is no need for full out sexual contact.

For others, sexual contact can be used as part of training protocols and rewards for good behaviour. This can be particularly effective if you have a puppy that misbehaves frequently and needs to have his behaviour modified.

What props are needed for puppy play?

The truth of the matter is, very few props are actually necessary. Puppy play is more about getting lost in the roleplay (for many it is deeper than a roleplay but more on that in future posts). Personally there are items I like to have with Me at all times when I am training:

Collar, (I take collaring very seriously but for puppy play, the significance is a little different. It is not as intimate as collaring a slave.) This is a great tool to have. It helps bring about the mental headspace of being a puppy. It can easily trigger an immediate immersion into the role of puppy. The respect I normally give to collaring slaves moves to doggy tags instead. Placed on the collar.
Leash, seems rather self explanatory to Me
Toys, in some cases the toys can be sexual as well as typical animal toys, like balls, chew toys, things along those lines. Sometimes the toys would have a sexual undertone, doggy bed one could hump, switch for misbehaviour, items of that nature.
Bowls, for feeding or watering.
Tails, not necessary but I enjoy My puppies having a lovely tail shoved into their human ass.

Glorious moments in puppy play

One of My favourite moments with a new puppy is the inspection. I treat it in a similar fashion would expect from a judge at a dog show. Physique can be important as well as the reaction to various stimuli. I like inspecting all My subs, adding the non vocal and animalistic behaviour of puppy play and the combination is absolutely delicious to Me.

Things to remember

Puppies, slaves and subs all have certain rights. you are, as a puppy, allowed to create a blue print to where and how far the play can go. The use of a safe word is not only acceptable but encouraged. For each puppy, the willingness to participate in a variety of activities can change. I have seen instances where puppies let off steam by humping each other during play time. Be aware of your limitations and find ways to communicate them to your trainer and if in a group setting, a way to show your fellow pups. Some like to play in packs.

More of the subject to come, think about this roleplay and experiment. Many subs find this style of play incredibly appealing.

Bark for Me puppy

Maîtresse Ambre Jade