Author: Ms Ambre Jade

Understanding the Female Led Relationship

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Female Led Relationship

Before I had ever heard the phrase “female led relationship,” I had already adapted this model for my life. In the past, I would have identified as a feminist, believing that all parties are equal and deserve an equal voice within any relationship. Though the roots of my feminist beliefs are still strong and play a large role in how I model my relationships, I find that I have evolved past them in my romantic relationships. I no longer desire equality, I desire supremacy. No, my ego is not huge and I do not feel superior to everyone I meet. I am not a bitch, I am not a horrible human being that yells and screams when the dishes are not done or the garbage not taken out. I just want control. I desire the power to make decisions that pertain to my relationships and the ability to have the final say. Let’s look at FLR (female led relationship) and what it is.

What is a Female Led Relationship?

Defining any relationship is difficult. There are so many factors that are specific to the individuals. Female led relationships are no different. There are some factors that remain the same for most models.

  • FLR is a model for a “heterosexual” relationship.
  • The identified woman is the ultimate decision maker as it pertains to the relationship.
  • The identified man of the relationship wants the woman to lead.

I have no intentions to turn this into a discussion about gender or sexual orientation, so interpret “heterosexual,” “woman,” and “man” as it would relate to your relationship. I want to say that the most important factor is the woman as the leader but in my experience, the most important factor is that the man be willing to follow.

A matriarch does not necessarily want to nag her man. She wants to create the rules surrounding the relationship. She does not want to force him to listen, though at times of training or during the introduction of new protocols it may be necessary. The man has to support this dynamic. He has to be willing to give up control over certain, and sometimes all, aspects of his life. Without the support, the dynamic crumbles. There must be a consensus between the woman and the man regarding what decisions she has power over. These can change over time and evolve depending on the individuals but I group them into 3 main categories.

Decisions Regarding the Relationship

Is it time to get married? Should we move in together? Is it time to meet the parents? You can see where I am going here. These decisions in all FLRs should be the responsibility of the woman. She is the one to determine the next step in the relationship. I have seen, through casual observation, that within the FLR community it seems rather common for the relationship to eventually extend into a D/s (Dominant/ submissive) relationship. It does not always happen but when and if it does, it is up to the woman. She is responsible for the decision. It is the woman’s responsibility to make that decision with the man’s wants and needs in mind as well. She is the matriarch but she needs to know the reactions her decisions will have on her subjects and react accordingly.

Decisions About Everyday Tasks, Behaviours, the Mundane

Who does the dishes? Who does the shopping? To me, this is what defines MY female led relationships. This is where I love having all the control. I like to be clear about my expectations and where my partner’s responsibilities lie. Should it be shopping, collecting the dry-cleaning, or making a decision as to where we are going to eat, I thrive on having control over these decisions. This can include the finances. In my relationships I have ultimate control over everything, including the finances. In my ideal relationship, the man would receive a weekly allowance. Controlling? Absolutely! Abuse? No, remember that my partners have agreed to this dynamic beforehand! (More on the topic of abuse compared to dominance later. It is a huge topic that I would like to devote an entire discussion to it!)

Big Life Decisions

Do we have kids? How would they be raised? Should we move? Buy a house? Rent? Own? These are huge decisions. It takes a true leader to determine what is right for her family. Allowing someone to make these decisions for you can be difficult. So can making these decisions. But if your female led relationship has the dynamic where she makes these choices, you should feel confident in her ability to weigh the outcomes. This can be scary. Not every FLR has a dynamic conducive to this type of power exchange. But if yours does, all the more power to you. If you are someone who is new to FLR, this might not be the right place to start.

Ultimately the decisions can be categorized like so:

  • Decisions about the relationship
  • Decisions about the household (day to day)
  • Decisions about the family (life decisions)

There is no need to rush your relationship into one where all the decisions rest on one woman’s shoulders. But if you are ready, the rewards can be amazing (more on that later this month).

Further Reading:

Here are some blogs and websites that I have enjoyed, all devoted to female led relationship: (I have no affiliation with any of these sites, I just found them to be interesting and worth a read.)

Men Submit has a few well written pieces.

I stumbled across this fantastic blog, Worshipping your Wife. The associated twitter account is also worth a follow or two.

AboutFLR is a fountain of fantastic formative information and discussions. I have not read through everything but so far everything has been great. I especially enjoyed how they divided FLR into levels.

Found this quickly, Gentle Seductress. I have not had the opportunity to look through the list in its entirety yet.

You can also find groups on fetlife. Some for those searching for FLR, both men and women.

If you have a quality resource that discusses FLR, please share it in the comments. I would love to add to my current list 🙂

Mental Bondage

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Mental Bondage

What is hypnosis if not an expression of mental bondage? Mental bondage is the restriction of movement without the use of rope, harnesses, cages, etc. Hypnosis is the perfect medium. Not only does it restrict movement, it also controls the environment surrounding the subject while in a trance. It creates a stream of thought that is guided by the Hypnotist, an ecology formed with one goal in mind. Submission. With your mind busy with commands from the Hypnotist, submission can even be considered a side effect. Mental bondage is created by the Hypnotist and the subject has no choice but to accept, submit and witness the experience.

Not every hypnosis session involves a passive role for the subject but it does quiet the rest of the mind. Unwelcome thoughts, either negative ones or thoughts that have no relevance to the goal of the session are quieted. The stream of consciousness is altered. The subject takes on a state wherein they have no control and consequently must submit to the will of the Hypnotist. Much like the will of the Dominant when movement is restricted through the use of rope or other forms of physical bondage.

Mental bondage can also be established through a series of commands. I normally do not recommend verbal commands to establish a bondage scene when the submissive is new or poorly trained. But through conditioning, either physical or psychological (hypnosis) verbal commands can be just as effective if not more so than bodily restraint.

When bound through physical means the submissive’s mind is still free to wonder, to explore their own thoughts. Submission is not as complete as it could be. That does not take away from the intensity of the experience, nor should physical bondage be seen as inferior. It is just incomplete when compared to the power of mental bondage. A slave that will kneel for hours when asked is far more impressive than a slave that will kneel for hours when bound.

Do not mistake My thoughts. I love bondage mental or physical. Submission is submission and power is power. And there is something spectacular about physically restraining someone, especially when they tend to misbehave.

À bientôt,

Ambre Jade

BDSM Check In

by Ms Ambre Jadein Femdom
BDSM Check In
Safe, Sane and Consensual

After being out of BDSM circles and My Own circles for so long (due to personal matters), it is important to do a check in. I fucking love check ins. BDSM check ins are especially important to Me. Sexuality is fluid for the majority of people, Myself included, so after a long absence it is important to reassess your goals, wants, needs and everything in between. For Me, My goal of taking over the universe one sub at a time has not changed, the manner in which I hope to accomplish this goal has not changed. I have though, realised that as a Dominant Woman, I have to make Myself more available to those who serve Me and those interested in serving Me and those in between.

My time away from the “scene” has allowed Me to review My Own behaviour and My Own desires. I believe that checking in is one of the many reasons I find anything within the BDSM community appealing. The opportunity to voice new ideas before each session or new partner, is something everyone should take advantage of. I know from My experience that I love when My submissives voice their thoughts or new goals to Me. This is of course assuming the context is right. The middle of a spanking is not the time to voice a desire for needle play when there has been no discussion beforehand.

Hypnosis, as part of My BDSM experience and as My most prominent fetish, is an important example of why check ins are so important. So much can change even after a single session. you may find yourself having thoughts you never knew you truly thought. Or a new fetish could pop up as something you want to try. These topics should be discussed before a session begins. During negotiations. If your current “relationship” does not allow for negotiations then a check in is even more important. Here are some tips for communicating your new desires or new thoughts to your Mistress/Master/Owner as it applies in a paying relationship. I make the distinction only because professional Dominants have little time for bullshit and Their time should be respected (not that lifestyle Dominants do not deserve the same respect but pros may assume you are looking to waste time):

  • Email or message your Dominant with a request for Their time
  • Offer to pay for this time (tribute, gift, per minute rate, depending on the Dominant)
  • Send a subsequent email briefly describing your new goals, or aspirations
  • Confirm with your Dominant that this is something you would like to try but ultimately it is up to Them if you incorporate it into your sessions

Offering to pay for the time is important. It has 2 main implications a) you care about your Dominant and Their time b) you are serious about trying something new. Let Me show you an example from one of My most devoted slaves:

Goddess,

i find that i would like to change some of our fantasies. Could we please set up some time to talk. i have sent You a gc for Your time should You desire having this talk with me.

x

Goddess,

i understand that you are busy and i thank You for allowing me the pleasure of emailing my request to You. During our fantasy next week could you please add in something about anal. i have been very curious about it but i don’t know where to take it. i know this is not something we normally do. i was thinking after You have me submit to You by kissing Your feet, You might touch on the idea of playing with my ass. i really desire this.

x

Now those messages are the ideal. Obviously things will be different depending on your Dominant or your particular situation but I cannot think of a single Domme that would refuse talking about this via email providing you have made some sort of sacrifice (gift, tribute, etc.).

Well, this started as a personal BDSM check in and took a turn for the better. Remember that communication is key in just about all situations. But pick your moment and be willing to sacrifice for the time you may be using up of your Domme.

À bientôt,

Ambre Jade

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Domination Words: Language in Ds Relationships

by Ms Ambre Jadein Femdom, Hypnosis

Domination Words: Language in Ds Relationships

Language in any relationship is a sensitive topic, for some filled with passion or resentment. Language in Ds relationships is the same. Ds and alternative relationships do change the relationship parameters a little, well a lot but it is still a relationship! It is still the joining of two lives, a convergence, however small, for however long, in whatever capacity. The moment you decide to communicate with one another, you have started a relationship. This applies to people in all walks of life when dealing with all experiences. As soon as another being is involved, it is a relationship. Good, bad, indifferent, it is still a meeting, still a relationship. But I digress. This is a post about language, about words and tones. More specifically about questions.

Sometimes I ask! Sometimes I ask you to tell Me how you are feeling. This is apart, separate from aftercare discussions or negotiations. Sometimes I ask what you want! Does that make Me less Dominant? I was recently told by a sub turned wanna be slave that he did not like that I ask. Fair play, some people do not like the illusion of choice. But I like asking so I will continue doing it. The reason I say the illusion of choice is this: Do you really think that I would ask a question in the middle of O/our session without My already knowing the answer? I always know the answer before I ask it! Perhaps an example will illustrate this more clearly. Here is a conversation I had recently with My darling puppy:

him: Goddess, every time you speak to Me, i need to open up for You, my legs open wide, i need You so badly

Me: What do you need puppy?

him: i don’t know Goddess

Me: Tell Me, why is it that when you hear My voice your body, specifically your legs open up for Me!

him: i… i….

Me: Say it!

him: they want You inside me.

Me: What do they want puppy?

him: i want You to fuck me, please Goddess!

O/our relationship has only recently included My fucking him. Prior to that, there was no ass play, no toying. (As a side note, My puppy has been chaste for just over 6 months, he is making Me incredibly proud of him) he still blushes when I mention fucking him. I find it adorable! he gets so embarrassed. So language, questions while in the middle of O/our play. I knew the answer before asking. I had set up this moment so that I knew exactly what he wanted but I wanted to hear him ask for it! This of course, is a more extreme example. Sometimes I like to ask in more subtle ways, and even lead more gently.

Does it make Me less Dominant that I ask before telling? The answer is no! I am aware that there are many who do not like the illusion of choice, or some where even the idea of being asked something is alien when they are in their sub space. But for Me, for My enjoyment I like asking! I do not think it makes anyone less Dominant for asking!

That being said though, the language we use during Ds play is so important! I would not take on a new submissive and ask him if it was okay if I hit him a little on his bum! That is ridiculous UNLESS and this is a huge UNLESS, it is during negotiations! Sometimes those of Us who work primarily online and over phones We forget, We forget that some people need more comfort before play and they do not necessarily know what their limitations are. When I take on a new submissive especially one who is newer to the experience of Ds, I tread lightly. Well as lightly as I can tread, there are some parts of My being I cannot turn off.

So the language for Me in this case is, lots of questions, idea exchanges and discussions during negotiations! When it is your husband or long term sub there is less of a need for this but in this scenario W/we are looking at someone new to the experiences. The language in the Ds relationship in this case will include lots of dialogue and discussion during negotiations but very little during the session. During a session with someone new, I like to be very clear about everything! What I expect, what I want, what will happen and this newcomer will not be asked anything! There is no need for him to have any illusion of control. In fact, in My experience, it works best when he is well aware of how little control he has!

When a slave and I have been doing scenes together long enough and My control is clearly established and his place is well ingrained in his mind, that is when language becomes important. By asking, I am giving the illusion of control, I am giving him a “chance” to refuse My influence and reclaim some of the power I have taken from him. he never does! And his admitting that by answering the question serves as a reminder of just how deep he is. Of just how far down the rabbit hole he is. he does not want the power but making him admit that… mmm, for Me there is something incredibly delicious about that.

Questions, thoughts, prayers, all the language used in a Ds relationship is important. Understanding that asking questions has a time and a place is essential! Someone starting out in a BDSM relationship, for example as a Top should be willing to ask questions before the scene! Not knowing something does not make you less powerful a Dominant, pretending you know something does! But that right there is a discussion for another time! Less about language and more about attitudes!

À bientôt,

Ambre Jade

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Findom Hypnosis

by Ms Ambre Jadein Findom, Sessions6 Comments on Findom Hypnosis

Findom Hypnosis

Let Me start out by stating that I do not participate in findom hypnosis or findom itself. Well not in the current mainstream sense anyway. Maybe it is not even the mainstream, I am mainly referring to the random tweets that make their way across My twitter feed or My facebook feed. you know the type; “#paypig #loser #tributeme pay me loser” style of messaging. I understand that people enjoy this type of play. I make no judgments beyond stating that this style or behaviour is most definitely not for Me or Mine or anyone who wishes to be Mine. There are several reasons, I will start at the top using the above quote as an example (the above quote is merely an amalgamation of various tweets and re-tweets that made their way onto My twitter feed early this morning, I was planning on writing about hypnosis when I woke up.)

For starters, I do not take on a loser as a sub, the mere fact that you want to please Me makes you a winner. I know it is not all that humiliating being reminded that you made some good choices it your life ie worshiping Me, but it is true. And I do not believe, in fact, I cannot believe that merely enjoying findom makes you a loser. Findom and by extension findom hypnosis are about power, giving it away in every part of your life, no the fact that you cannot get laid or no girl wants to touch your peepee or whatever random childish remark I have received that is sitting in My email junk box.

Financial domination is about power and control. More on that in a second though, I would like to continue focusing that My make believe tweet. The term “paypig” now I happen to enjoy this word. I have used it when speaking, teasing, abusing submissives. Everything is with a context. To explain why I enjoy the term, let Me share with you an example. I have a sub, his name is not important, he is Mine completely and that is all that matters. Generally, our scenes do not involve tributes or payments, we play because I enjoy playing with him. But I digress, so our scenes generally do not involve any sort of findom. Sometimes, I enjoy reminding him what I deserve, basically everything. When I do that, he starts to snort, and thus the creation of the paypig in him. He will then tribute or gift or whatever. In this case, he is My pay piggy. I do not believe in sending mass messages calling people paypigs. But like I said, there are no judgments here, obviously we all have different followers and a different way of playing financial domination games. Everyone has what they enjoy.

From a personal taste stand point, I do not get off on telling people to send Me shit. Okay, perhaps that needs to be rephrased, I do not get off telling people what to do without working up to it. I enjoy the slow burn into your mind. I enjoy it when you are begging Me to send Me things! Not because I asked you to but rather because you know I deserve anything that I should want. Financial domination is about Me deserving your money more than you. But I also believe I have to deserve it. A picture of a dildo next to My voluptuous ass does not, in My opinion, deserve gifts. I deserve gifts when I take the time to fuck with your brain and remind you what is Mine and what should be Mine. Perhaps this is the intention of those who throw pictures out. Maybe to Them, Their physical traits remind the sub how perfect Their Mistress is. That is just not the way I roll!

I like findom hypnosis when it is within specific parametres. When there is a discussion beforehand. As you may or may not be aware, I LOVE protocols and the discussions that take place when figuring out the individual protocols that will be attached to you. Financial domination should have protocols and limitations. At least in the beginning of the relationship! For some, My style of wanting to discuss, check in, negotiate, etc. is not all that attractive, they enjoy being referred to as paypiggies or loser or (add appropriate  synonym) and there is nothing wrong with that. There is something wrong with wanting that if you are wanting it with Me.

Findom for Me, is about power and sacrifice. What are you willing to not get today so that you may please your Goddess? She should never have to ask! This is important, even if I am not your Goddess or Mistress or whatever, even if you do not worship Me, the Woman you do worship deserved gifts WITHOUT asking for them. you should find a way to prove that you are willing to go without so that She can have something! It does not even have to be big, say you normally buy a coffee on the way to work, well for one month every morning when you would normally buy your coffee, you send that tribute to Her. It is tiny but after a month it becomes a nice sum and it proves that you as Her worshiper are willing to go without so that She may receive.

Financial Domination is a huge thing! It should but should also be respected. If you have a contract, respect it, if you appreciate your Goddess’ time, show it! There is more to being a submissive than the ability to follow orders. Show that you will make a willing sacrifice without even being asked!

À bientôt,

Ambre Jade

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Finding your Hypnosis submission

by Ms Ambre Jadein Hypnosis4 Comments on Finding your Hypnosis submission

Jan23

Hypnosis submission can be a scary thing. Perhaps, scary would not be the best word to use. Intimidating. As a submission, as a human being you are exposing yourself in one of the most vulnerable ways. your mind is completely open to Me, to the HypnoDomme. your thoughts are free. I always find it incredibly interesting how much a submissive learns about himself while under. Without your conscious thought stream, you are free to explore yourself. Certain behaviours, actions, ideas can become more appealing because you are not constrained in your thought process. This is exponentially true when your thoughts are being controlled by a Hypnotist.

When you manage to found your sub space for the first time, how did that feel? Was it different when you were forced into hypnosis submission? For many of My subs, there is a distinction between the two but both places were/are incredibly intense. When you are submissive, when you have that established trust with Someone the intensity is magnified. The freedom you find as a submissive is without boundaries. With the right encouragement, the right experiences, the right Goddess finding your hypnosis submission is not only pleasurable and enjoyable, it will teach you more about yourself than you ever thought possible.

you could find yourself in sub space, there through hypnosis submission, and you crave certain fantasies you had previously never explored or thought were erotic in anyway. That is, until My gentle voice guides into deeper parts of your consciousness. Perhaps even the darker parts of your being. Those are the parts of you that I want. Oui, I can be scary that way but I want the parts of you that are virginal. The deepest recesses of your soul and mind; I want those to belong to Me. I will help you find your submission, your sub space through gentle and well controlled hypnosis submission.

Let’s find your hypnosis submission. Listen as I guide you through an experience you never thought possible. Open that mind of yours to the possibilities and the ecstasy that awaits through true submission, through a melding of minds, one Dominant and one submissive.

your Mind is Mine,

Ambre Jade

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Owning your Mind

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Owning your Mind

A few whispers, some choice words and as easily as that I end up owning your mind. Through My power your mind weakens and begs to have control taken from it. My gentle, misleading voice easily grabs all that control, all your will power, as you slowly dissolve and rest against the safety of My voice, of My presence. your mind is now Mine. It always has been. It was merely waiting for the right moment to give itself over to Me. Every thought you have from this point forward belongs to Me.

Owning your mind gives Me such power, such control over every single action you do. your physical being is affected by the words and syllables escaping My precious lips. you mind opens the door for Me. From here, I can change, corrupt, heal, embrace, the possibilities are endless as to what I can do when I own your mind. your fantasies become Mine, My needs become more important than yours. All from owning your mind.

There is no escape one I get there. Freedom comes at price. As does servitude. But once I am there you will no longer feel the need for freedom. Such a small thing when compared to the eroticism of having your mind controlled and owned by Someone who knows what They want and how They would like you to behave. A complete loss of control. Allowing My thoughts, My needs, My desires to become first and foremost with even the deepest depths of your mind (or rather, My mind now). Every erotic thought, every physical sensation belongs to Me, I let you have it, let you feel it. you and your mind are now completely Mine!

Bask in My presence,

Goddess Ambre Jade

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My Commitments To Erotic Hypnosis in 2014

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Erotic Hypnosis with Ambre Jade

Since the year has changed, I would like to list the commitments I am willing to make to erotic hypnosis and to My loyal followers! 2013 was a fucking roller-coaster and I am incredibly pleased to see it go. In 2014, I plan on re establishing Myself within the erotic hypnosis community as well as My local BDSM community! I am not one to seek out gatherings and go out to events but this year I would very much like to try harder! To put some faces to voices and new faces are always great!

My focus will be mp3 erotic hypnosis creations! I have made similar promises before and My delivery has been sparse, at best but I plan on completely focusing My energies to creating new aural experiences. I have several already in the works including one that will be available for free, forever on this site. Another is to train yourself to enter sub space more easily. There will actually be a series for that one, but I digress! 2014 will be the year where you find yourself kneeling, submitting, drifting away all to the syllables coming out of My mouth. you will find yourself in a web of eroticism and feel comforted by it and My presence.

With regards to over the phone erotic hypnosis, My availability is clearly outlined. I do encourage you to communicate with Me should the times I have outlined not work for you, you will have to make an appointment. I will be available for calls during those specified hours. Of course, there will be time when I am not available or on calls or have previous engagements and you will just have to practice your patience! It is a virtue, be virtuous for Me!

For those looking for cam erotic hypnosis, it will be coming soon. At a price, a fairly high one. Understand that though it is erotic hypnosis, I will not be naked, nor will I ever be naked on cam for you! you will see My face and if you are very very lucky some of My body! My watching you on cam does not cost anymore than the call itself. Erotic hypnosis with Me on cam will be available starting in February. It will be one day a week and the rest will be by appointment only. I know this may seem to remove some of the fun spontaneity but I assure you it will definitely be worth it.

I am planning erotic hypnosis and BDSM related podcasts. They will be monthly and if a larger following occurs, I will endeavor to make them more frequent, say twice a month. There will be more on this to come in the near future. I will revisit, right now I am wanting to outline My erotic hypnosis goals for the coming year!

your Mind is Mine,

Ambre Jade

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Top Ten Behaviours of a Proper Hypnoslave (or any submissive for that matter) According to Ambre Jade

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Hypnoslave Behaviours

There are behaviours that should be encouraged and others that should be squashed immediately and of course others that can be tolerated. This following is a list of behaviours that I find most appealing for My hypnoslaves as well as My other subs.

10. Intelligent Hypnoslave

Just because you are an intelligent hypnoslave, does not mean you will be smarter than I am. We are all blessed with certain qualities. One of Mine happens to be intellect. I like a hypnoslave with the ability to hold a conversation. someone who has the ability to talk both before and after a hypnosis session. There are many qualities intellect brings to the table. From My point of view, it is not difficult to control the thoughts and body of someone who rarely uses their mind. There is no challenge in it. Why should I bother? If you cannot be an intelligent hypnoslave, look along the list to endear yourself to Me.

9. Open Minded

An open mind is an incredibly important thing for a hypnoslave as well as any slave that I am working with. This does not mean that a hypnoslave does not have limitations. It means that they are willing to explore a wide variety within your accepted limits. A hypnoslave that is very rigid has no place with Me. Though I do find the fact that you know what you want appealing, it is not appealing enough for Me to want to continue a D/s relationship with you.

8. Creative

As a HypnoDomme, My creativity is constantly tested and I am always successful in creating an amazing experience but every now and then I like when My hypnoslave has a suggestion or two. It does not have to be a large masterpiece, from a single statement I can usually create a series of experiences. I very much enjoy hearing your creative ideas. Within the mind of every hypnoslave there are ideas and upon occasion I would like to explore them. There is nothing worse than the D/s, hypnotic relationship becoming stale!

 7. Self-Awareness

This hypnoslave behaviour is most appealing in the beginning of O/our relationship. Later on it becomes less important as your mind becomes Mine but in the beginning it is incredible. The thing about self-awareness within a hypnotic relationship is that you may not be conscious of how self aware you are when you are taken deeply. Some of My most enjoyable moments happen when a tight lipped sub starts spurting out all their fantasies while under and has no recollection of it when awake.

6. Patience

I am a patient Woman, I expect the same in return. A hypnoslave that is rushed or not understanding that I do have a life outside of being the most incredible HypnoDomme. I enjoy taking My time, savouring every single moment. A hypnoslave that is truly Mine will adore every moment with Me, even when there is no hypnosis actually taking place.

5. Generous

Now please understand that I enjoy finDom. That being said I also enjoy when you gift, tip, share, etc. without being asked. The most precious gift W/we all have is time, be generous with yours. Be willing to contribute in some way to My life and My career, if you will, as a HypnoDomme. It takes all of 10 secs to “like” something on facebook. In terms of gifting, I have a wishlist, I have bills that have to be paid and there are ways that you can help Me with that. I have hypnoslaves that not only send Me gifts but also My son, that is generosity!

4. Devotion

I am hesitant to put devotion on this list. It would rank quite high on the list which is why I am placing it here. Devotion does not mean something ridiculous like My saying “you will worship none other but Me.” That idea is bullshit because I know that you can be exploring different styles or people and still be devoted. I also know that you can call Me every single day and it not be out of devotion. Devotion means asking Me how I am and meaning it! This quality sounds like something everyone should have but true devotion is a rarity and I treasure it.

3. Communicative

This, of course, is not applicable during a session. It has some relevance to the previous mentioned qualities but deserves a place of its own. A hypnoslave should have the ability to communicate their desires as well as their needs to their HypnoDomme. you should be willing to share parts of yourself with Me. I understand that not every hypnoslave lives this style of living full time and some do not want their real life to interfere with their life as a hypnoslave. All it takes is telling Me that. This confirms that you respect Me and appreciate My valuable time and that even though you do not want to share specifics you are willing to acknowledge that W/we both have outside lives.

2. RESPECTFUL

We have all watched animated video about respect and what it mean, etc. Respect from a hypnoslave to a HypnoDomme almost happens automatically, at least that has been My experience but a hypnoslave should respect so much more. you should respect other HypnoDommes and other submissives. you should avoid making snap judgments about anyone or any one fetish. There is a time and a place to discuss fetishes and related topics but do not judge around Me. Chances are, the prejudices you voice will relate to someone I know, and I will be forced to terminate O/our relationship.

1. Honest

Be honest. Honest not only with Me but also with yourself. Be honest about where you expect O/our relationship to go, how you would like to get there and similar things. If you do not know something be honest and share it. I find honesty to be the most important quality that any one person can have, hypnoslave, sub, Domme whatever, wherever honesty is a quality you should project!

There is My short list and brief overview of My top ten Hypnoslave behaviours. Did I miss something you find important? What is the most important quality to your HypnoDomme?

your mind is Mine,

Ambre Jade

Returning To Erotic Hypnosis

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Erotic Hypnosis with AMbre Jade

Finally, I will be returning to Erotic Hypnosis. Not that I was ever really absent from hypnosis itself but I have had some very limited availability. It seems as though everyone around Me is having some sort of crisis. Be it health, emotional, even spiritual, I have been there to help pick up the pieces. I also suffered from My Own health crisis but it seems like all that is over with. There will be more on that in the future. All this to say, I have been extremely busy and really only had time for custom recordings and My in person subs.

So now that there is time and I am completely available and committed to returning to erotic hypnosis over the phone and coming soon hypnosis via cam, more on that in the future as well.

It takes an extreme amount of commitment to be a full time HypnoDomme. Now that My health and personal life are more or less stable I am ready to recommit Myself to My past and future subs. I am also making a commitment to further recorded erotic hypnosis sessions. My session “My Light” will be available for free via this site. It will be coming out soon. I just have a few things to edit before it will be available to the public. I am extremely excited with the recorded erotic hypnosis session that will come! I have 4 series in the works and some long, deep sessions. It will be great to share them with you.

For those of you looking for something live, you will have to arrange it with Me. I am going to be more available but I will still not be “full time” on the phones. My priority is My health and family obligations. This makes impromptu sessions difficult to organize, though not impossible. I would strongly recommend though that you arrange your sessions before hand. I will be returning to erotic hypnosis but to devoting My entire life to phones, messengers, twitter, etc.

As well as returning to erotic hypnosis, I am also looking for an in person submissive woman, or self identified woman for an LTR. you must be comfortable with polyamoury and be willing to play in the softer side of a D/s relationship. I do not and likely never will enjoy inflicting pain on women! So there is something a little more personal than I usually talk about!

your mind is Mine,

Ms Ambre Jade