Ms Ambre Jade, Author at Ms Ambre Jade

Responses to Corridors

September 8, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Hypnosis

As I am getting ready to release Corridors part 2, I am looking over the hypnosis assignment included in the first one. Not a complicated assignment by any means but a simple guide of introspective thought and questions to get your mind thinking. Every time I read the responses I am filled with pride that I could facilitate such learning. It is a wonderful thing. The Corridors series is one to increase and bring toward the surface your need to submit, to add some submissive touches to your everyday. Part 1 deals with learning how you can be a better submissive, learning what environments your mind creates to exemplify your submission needs.

The chest contained a leash that attatched (attached) to my collar. I realized that my natural state is a submissive pet, and the leash is meant for one owner/Mistress to own me and make her her own obedient pet.

Collars seem to be a central theme. A simple accessory one can add to truly complete the submissive self. Do you enjoy wearing them? For Me, collars represent ownership, a sense of belonging to a single Person. A pet really is My favourite type of submissive and I am extremely pleased that this is noted in many of the responses.

I am stunned by the intensity of my need to submit and surrender to You Ms. Ambre Jade. Immediately after I passed through the door i knew you were there observing me and all I could see was myself begging You to accept me as Yours.

The need to belong. What a lovely sentiment! It always fills Me with joy when someone needs to belong. When it surpasses a want and becomes a need, a necessity to belong. Though, within this file there are no messages that the subject needs to belong to Me specifically, it seems that a devotion to Me occurs as a side effect. I am sure someone who has their place already will find that Corridors merely serves to solidify their need for submission to their owner.

This is a lovely file for those trying Me for the first time. A beautiful journey into your submissive self. A quick trip into your sub-conscious.

Are you ready to take that journey with Me?

À bientôt,

Ambre Jade

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Thoughts on Feminization

September 6, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Femdom, Fetish1 Comment

There are so many different ways feminization manifests itself. With such a large variety of ways to interpret feminization finding your place can be difficult. Finding the right guiding hand can be a challenge. The most important thing for you to know is the answer to this question:

Where do you want to be in a year?

It is a simple enough question but when trying to create your feminization journey it is so important. It is crucial for you to know where you want to be.

Why is this so important? Because it helps your Domme create the right regime, path, journey for you. I hear so many people tell Me, just turn Me into your girl and do what you want with Me. Well, I have touched on that before and I do not really feel like talking about it again so read up. Where was I? Oh yes, knowing where you want to be in a year. A year is a long time, you can easily use a shorter time frame. The point is, you have a sense of direction. A place you want to go.

As a Domme, I am not a mind reader. your initial thoughts and goals are important. Some of you are looking to become cock sluts and sissy whores while others are trying to start their journey into crossdressing or playing with the idea of living as a Woman in your day to day life. I know there are Dommes out there who follow Their own schedule for each person, and create wonderful journeys for everyone to follow. They are used to dealing with a specific type of client. I am and always have been incredibly flexible with My feminization clients.

I enjoy the diversity of having a multitude of cross dressing enthusiasts, sissies and feminization clients. I like that every individual is unique. As is the woman deep inside you, she is unique too. She wants to enter this world freely. She wants to be allowed freedom from the confines of your inferior male exterior. Let her free. Let her live. Let Me guide you in your journey to breath life into her being.

Just know the answer to that question. Know what direction you want to start your path. It is only the start! There are so many places I can take you.

Kneel for your Maîtresse

Ambre Jade

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Deep under My Hypnotic Influence

September 5, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Hypnosis

As some of you know, I can be a little particular when it comes to who is MY sub or slave. I will do hypnosis sessions on those that are not exclusively Mine and those just looking for the opportunity to submit deeply. So many fall so deep under My hypnotic influence. This merely increases over time. Many have noticed that the frequency with which they hear My voice, listen to My recordings, spend one on one time with Me, the more deeply their compulsion to submit runs. It becomes part of their foundation, part of their being.

My hypnotic influence is gentle, calm and relaxed. From something with such a strong hold on you it is surprisingly, deceptively soft. Many people find themselves shocked at just how intense My hold can be. your mind slips so easily into craving My influence, My touch, My control. It is hard to even notice it. Subtle, soft, slowly removing your own desires and replacing it with My Own.

Subtlety is underrated, don’t you agree? Control can be established in so many ways. But why force when one can easily crawl and change thoughts and desires from the inside? Why command, when one can so easily whisper a word and change your being?

That is not to say there is not time to be commanding and demanding and forceful! But when you are tranced, when you are deep under My hypnotic influence there is no need for force. A single word can change your being. A single whisper can change you. Brainwashing is best when you have no recollection of its occurrence! Give in deep, feel My hypnotic influence all around. Embrace your submissive natural, obey and surrender to My influence. Feel My power take you over.

À bientôt,

Ambre Jade

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In Person or Online Domination

September 3, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Domme Thought

I am constantly hearing online subs complain that they cannot live the lifestyle to the full extent they want to because they are “only online subs”. What a bullshit statement!!! I get that life can get in the way, I really do, trust me! I have a family, I have responsibilities, I have all the same day to day crap that needs doing. But I digress. There are advantages to both, and disadvantages. In my mind, both are equal in a submissive’s ability to devote the amount of time to their lifestyle. I am tired of hearing people talk about online Domination like it is not real. Like it is fantasy, like everyone is play acting. It isn’t. The people who partake in it actively, those of us who have chosen to live a kinkier, if you will, lifestyle create the environment we decide to live in.

Online domination, to me, is more real, more honest than any in person profession session (though, it the interest of being honest, my in person pro sessions are limited and small) I have had. There is a genuine quality to the time I spend with my online slaves. When I see people in person, it seems to become somewhat of a show, on both our parts. And yes, that is what it is. A show. It is a service. When I do sessions online, it is still a service, but the show aspect is minimal. Neither party acting or concerned with much else other than being worshiped and worshiping. It is delightfully refreshing.

The online sessions always seem more real, if you will. Yes, my experience with pro sessions in person is minimal so please do not take this to mean I am saying all in person sessions are shows, they aren’t. I am specifically talking about my experience. The real quality stems from the slave merely enjoying contact with me, spending time with me. They pay for the privilege but there is a sense of belonging that is more intense than I have ever felt with an in-person domination session, as a pro. I make the distinction because there is an deep quality to the relationships I have that are not professional. But even those there is a very active online component. There are few things I enjoy more than receiving a message from my puppy saying “Goddess i woke up this morning needing You so badly it hurt.” I mean, who wouldn’t want to read that?

So all this written diarrhea to say, do not mistake an online domination relationship to be less than an in person one. Do both you and your Superior a favour and acknowledge that though you may not see each other flesh to flesh, the relationship is solid and real. It is also likely to be more real than if you were in fact meeting in person.

Ambre Jade

To those proDommes and proDomme enthusiasts who may take offense to my opinions, I am merely speaking from personal experience. Your Domme is not my Domme, your relationship is not my relationship so it is very likely to be different for you.

Financial Domination, where do you fit in?

September 2, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Fetish, Findom

It can be confusing, I suppose, the world of financial domination. With so many different manifestations of findom and so many different ways to express it, an individual can easily get lost. I get it. But it is important that you are aware of your own place. In order to know your place it has to be outlined for you, well most of you since when interacting with Me the blood seems to flow away from your brain and you become imbeciles.

So where do you fit in? At what niveau is your devotion to financial domination? There is nothing wrong with being where you are but an individual should be aware of where they fit in, where they want to go. I have a simple enough system of categories, easy to follow. And yes, you might fit between categories or find yourself not well represented within My system. That is the wonderful part of financial domination with Me, it is always evolving.

The Customer

The customer archetype is an individual who submits through purchase. Usually files or games. The domination is minimal but still very real. Unlike others the customer expects and receives something in return for their money. It could be argued that the customer does not even belong as an archetype of findomme.

The Client/Caller

The client or caller spends much of their money to spend one on one time with Me. This is either through phone, cam or text. The client archetype tributes as well. The domination aspect comes from the amount of time they are spending with Me, the minute rate. Which can be played with as well.

The Fetishist

Those with a fetish, a sexualised need to have your finances dominated but still want some interaction as well. This are the tributes, the sacrifices, the gifts. Sometimes there is an interaction between us but not always. For some this represents itself as “drive-by” gifting or tributes. The fetishist is a complex archetype with many, many ways it presents itself.

The Financial Domination submissive

The submissive requires an interaction, a wallet draining or raping. Though completely committed to funding My lifestyle, the submissive requires attention, a reminder that they belong to Me. That they are Mine. The submission comes through their wallet before anything else.

The Financial slave

Oh what a lovely archetype the financial domination slave is. There is no interaction, they delight solely in the knowledge that their money in sustaining My lifestyle. There is no interaction, no back and forth. Money goes from their hand and into Mine. Many refer to these as “pay pigs” or similar titles. I think slavery is a better description. A slave provides for its Owner.

So where do you fit in? Where do you want to fit in?

How do you approach a Domme when looking for Financial Domination?

The first step is to always send a tribute. Send an email with it if you must, talking about what type of relationship you are looking for. The important part is proving you are actually looking for a proper Financial Domme. All too often I receive messages, emails and texts of people begging Me to dominate them financially. Well, if you are not willing to part with a small tribute to prove you are serious, you are not worth My time.

Let your Mind Dissolve for Me

September 1, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Hypnosis1 Comment

Let your mind dissolve for Me! Feel your thoughts disappear as My words filled your mind. My thoughts, needs, desires force their way into your mind as it dissolves for Me. you empty it so easily for Me. A nice void for Me to fill with whatever I chose, whatever I want to fill it with. your freedom completely dissolved by the elegant words flowing from between My lips. My eyes penetrating into your soul, removing your desire anything, anyone but Me. Just the power of Ambre Jade and being under My influence. My light shines through you. you become My marionette. My puppet. My plaything. A doll for Me to control and toy with.

Dissolve your own wants and needs. Fill the void it leaves with thoughts and impressions of Me. Of My power running through your being, both the physical and the emotional. you belong to Me. you mind belong to Me. you are powerless to resist as your mind dissolves. The void created as you dissolve, as you empty yourself of everything is filled by My influence. you become nothing without Me. your existence is reliant on Me, on feeling My influence on you. Wishing with every waking moment to feel Me in your mind.

I know, just thinking about My power over you makes you weak already. Just thinking about your mind dissolving for Me. Just thinking about My words has your blood rushing from your mind into other area. This weakness, this submission you feel, enjoy it. Delight in the experience of weakening for Me. Of letting go and feeling My influence creep through you as your mind and thoughts dissolve for Me. Such a good marionette! Desperate to feel Me there with you, to feel Me at all times. To submit to Me always.

À bientôt,

Ambre Jade

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Controlled by a Goddess

August 4, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Hypnosis1 Comment

That moment when you realise that every action you take is controlled by a Goddess. When your thoughts are so intertwined with Hers that you are no longer certain whether it was originally from your mind or Hers. How far are you willing to go? To what depth are you willing to please and serve Her?

Everyone has an ideal in their heads. The ideal relationship. The ideal Goddess. The ideal setting. Basically add ideal to anything and someone has that pictured in their mind. What level of control is ideal to you? To what extent, ideally, would you want to be controlled by a Goddess? I have many people contact Me, message Me, tweet Me, etc. who would like their entire life to be controlled by Me. Of course, I mean, who wouldn’t? The problem being they are playing in the ideal, they are not accepting of the real world control. Many seem to be under the impression that giving up control is an adequate currency to be controlled by a Goddess. But this is not My ideal. My ideal is total control, absolutely but Goddesses should be worshiped. Compensation for My time should be without question.

Just earlier today I was approached by an individual claiming he wanted to be hypnotised, wanted to be controlled. Beautiful, I love hypnosis, I love taking control! But upon the realisation that being controlled by a Goddess came at a price he objected. Well, why would I want to control someone where there is no benefit to Me? This is something that happens when your passion is also your business. Because I am so passionate and because of My love of hypnosis, I should be taking control for free.

NO! My demand of actual compensation for My time and command for sacrifices from you for My time does not make the relationship a fantasy or less than real. It does not mean I do not think about My slaves when I am “not working.” What it does is show that you, as a submissive, understand that My time is valuable. It shows that you as a hypnotic subject appreciate the time and effort I put in to the relationship we have. It is nothing more and nothing less than that.

Being controlled by Me, being controlled by a Goddess demands a sacrifice. A sacrifice of your time, your free will, your ability to decide certain things. Being controlled by Me is a luxury. It is a blessing. A gift even. When you find your Goddess, your religion, you are grateful, you understand that you surrender yourself over to Her will, Her desires and your devotion should reflect that.

À bientôt,

Ambre Jade

Commandment 1 Clothed Female Naked male (CFNm)

July 26, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Femdom, Sessions3 Comments

This is the beginning of a series of Commandments which you will adhere to when spending time with Me, regardless of the medium. We will be starting with CFNm clothed Female naked male. I do not believe I should ever remove all My clothing. When I am being worshiped, you should always be without clothing. This includes hypnosis sessions. I understand that there will be time when this is not possible but whenever it is possible this is the only way to approach Me. I will not tolerate you dressing otherwise unless you are dressed as a Woman.

Why CFMn?

you being naked automatically puts Me in a position of power. Though I am always in such a position, I like that you have a constant physical reminder of that fact that I am in complete control. Let My clothing be a reminder of how Superior I am. I get to cover Myself, I get to dress in any fashion that pleases Me and you, you do not deserve the luxury of covering up.

Exceptions to My Commandment

There are always exceptions right? The only individuals exempt from My clothed Female naked male commandment are those of you boys who like to dress in Woman’s clothing. Panties, bras, lingerie, dresses are permitted. This is because your clothing is a part of your submissive side. Be advised, there will be times when I request you be nude!

Collars, play collars are also exempt from this commandment. you have My permission to wear one during our sessions. I would prefer that you ask permission before hand.

When Clothed Female Naked man is not possible

I am aware that CFMn is not always possible. Some call from work or in a public place or their Mother is home 😉 There are a couple of acceptable reasons. The only way to know if your reason is acceptable is to ask Me! The first words leaving your mouth beyond “Allo Maîtresse, should be you begging permission and informing Me that you are not in the proper attire! I will determine if your reasoning is sound and whether or not it is acceptable to be dressed as you are.

thou shall remove all street clothing prior to any prayer or worship in the presence of Maîtresse Ambre Jade

Mourning the Loss of Intimacy

July 24, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Domme Thought1 Comment

Mourning the Loss

Things change! As much as we hate it, they change. Friendships end. Relationships change. What do we do when they change? When something is not necessarily lost but rather changed to such an extent that it feels like a loss. How should you react? Do you mourn it with the same passion you would mourn the cessation of the relationship? I think we should! I think we should allow ourselves to feel the full spectrum of sensation and allow the passion that was once there to be released.

When my puppy and I had our mis-communication a few weeks back, it changed the nature of our relationship. I should not say that the mis-communication changed it but rather my own response to the communication break down. I find myself doubting his sincerity. It is not that he has done anything further to cause such doubts. It is nothing something he has done, or hasn’t done. It is more my own reaction. My inability to “get over” the previous problem seems to be the root of my current breakdown. When we spoke the first time following our troubles, things seemed wonderful, fantastic, like nothing had happened. But doubt is a powerful thing. It lays its seeds inside you where you would least expect it and then grows at an exponential rate.

After we spoke, he did not message me the following morning, there were no attestations of love and devotion. This happens, even before the issues. Sometimes it happens. But doubt, it caused this horrible feeling to follow me around. Doubt, doubt, doubt. He is holding more from you. That is what my mind was screaming at me. You scared him. You changed the dynamic and this is the consequence you have to pay. The intimacy that was once so clear and almost tangible between seems to have disappeared. Doubt took its place.

It is not a very dominant feeling, thinking you are the only one being intimate. The feelings I once had of dominance and control over him were replaced by doubt. How can an individual show her dominance over a slave when she fears the slave is not all into the experience? It is a rambling discussion. Many thoughts are running through my mind. These simple ramblings, that are likely full of grammatical errors and spelling mistakes, run on sentences and the like. But they represent my way of mourning the loss of intimacy. Of grieving what was once so full of possibilities and is now clouded with doubt. I am sure I will get over myself in the near future and that eventually my puppy and I will find our intimacy and we will learn to trust each other.

Until then though, I will express my passion through continued mourning of what was once full of promise.

Puppy Play 101

July 15, 2014 by Ms Ambre Jadein Femdom, Fetish, Sessions3 Comments

Puppy play is a true passion of Mine. I own and keep 2 puppies on a regular basis. One in house and one more long distance. I have broken both of them in perfectly and to My satisfaction. This is a long process. It has taken Me a long time to break them in just right. I do not expect their level of obedience with any new puppy.

What is puppy play?

Puppy play is a unique and stimulating representation of the D/s relationship. One individual (the Domme in My case) is the Owner or Trainer, I have also heard the term “Handler”. The other is the puppy or pet. It is a very obvious and satisfying dynamic. Everyone knows their place. It seems very straight forward. The Handler controls the action and behaviour of the pup.

Is puppy play erotic?

Puppy play can manifest itself in many ways. A large number of puppies I speak with, do not feel the need for sexual contact between their Owner and themselves. They feel having the puppy mentality is satisfying enough! The disappearance of their human qualities and characteristics becomes their satisfaction. There is no need for full out sexual contact.

For others, sexual contact can be used as part of training protocols and rewards for good behaviour. This can be particularly effective if you have a puppy that misbehaves frequently and needs to have his behaviour modified.

What props are needed for puppy play?

The truth of the matter is, very few props are actually necessary. Puppy play is more about getting lost in the roleplay (for many it is deeper than a roleplay but more on that in future posts). Personally there are items I like to have with Me at all times when I am training:

Collar, (I take collaring very seriously but for puppy play, the significance is a little different. It is not as intimate as collaring a slave.) This is a great tool to have. It helps bring about the mental headspace of being a puppy. It can easily trigger an immediate immersion into the role of puppy. The respect I normally give to collaring slaves moves to doggy tags instead. Placed on the collar.
Leash, seems rather self explanatory to Me
Toys, in some cases the toys can be sexual as well as typical animal toys, like balls, chew toys, things along those lines. Sometimes the toys would have a sexual undertone, doggy bed one could hump, switch for misbehaviour, items of that nature.
Bowls, for feeding or watering.
Tails, not necessary but I enjoy My puppies having a lovely tail shoved into their human ass.

Glorious moments in puppy play

One of My favourite moments with a new puppy is the inspection. I treat it in a similar fashion would expect from a judge at a dog show. Physique can be important as well as the reaction to various stimuli. I like inspecting all My subs, adding the non vocal and animalistic behaviour of puppy play and the combination is absolutely delicious to Me.

Things to remember

Puppies, slaves and subs all have certain rights. you are, as a puppy, allowed to create a blue print to where and how far the play can go. The use of a safe word is not only acceptable but encouraged. For each puppy, the willingness to participate in a variety of activities can change. I have seen instances where puppies let off steam by humping each other during play time. Be aware of your limitations and find ways to communicate them to your trainer and if in a group setting, a way to show your fellow pups. Some like to play in packs.

More of the subject to come, think about this roleplay and experiment. Many subs find this style of play incredibly appealing.

Bark for Me puppy

Maîtresse Ambre Jade