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To only serve one Mistress… is that important to you? Is it important to Her? I have been a Dominant Woman for most of My life, went through a switch period, you know how fluid sexuality can be. Anyway, when I first started doing phone domination, back when I was working for phone sex lines, “you can only serve Me” came from My lips on a regular basis, emphasizing each words, each syllable. I wanted to encourage devotion by having them serve one Goddess. At the surface, it makes sense. But that’s all it was, a superficial creation of devotion that was, for all intents and purposes, meaningless.
It is not that having you serve one Mistress that makes it meaningless, it was the manner in which the orders were delivered. It means nothing to serve one Mistress when you are told to do so. Well, not meaningless, but I found, especially in the environment of a phone sex company, this encouraged jealousy, bickering among Women, lies from subs, ultimately it manifests a very negative environment. I want you to contrast being told to worship one Mistress vs it happening organically, as a natural progression of your devotion.
Here’s the thing, you should serve one Mistress if it feels right to you. If you are looking for something specific and are whoring about looking for the right dynamic (there is nothing wrong with that), make sure you are honest about it. An invested Mistress will want you to find the right dynamic that works for you and will allow you to worship Her while you are searching. Well, not every one feels that way. Some Dommes are far more demanding when it comes to who their subs are spending time with. For Me, I encourage people to look beyond just Me.
Why? I want you to find the right person who will have you craving only serving Her, or Me as the case may be. I want My devoted slaves to be devoted to Me because they are, not because I am telling them to be. When I first start phone domination, I was met with a multitude of new challenges mostly due to the medium transition, in person/lifestyle vs phone/online, are different. Especially in the beginning. Bulldozing someone into worshiping Me and Me alone seemed ridiculous.
My subs that serve more than Myself are encouraged to look around, try new people and even get some direction from Me as to whom they should try. Why do I let them? Because if their needs are not being met by Me alone, that will not change, what it will change is their desire to be honest with Me. I want them to feel at ease talking about what they are looking for. Especially when it comes to dating and finding a lifestyle Domme partner. I would be ignoring their desire for a physical relationship with another person solely because what? I don’t like sharing! I have no qualms sharing.
There are submissive people who want you to limit their contact with other Dommes, and there is nothing wrong with that either, but it is not something I am in the habit of doing. When I started adopting My views to one of sharing and honesty, I found that more of My submissives became monogamous and they stuck around longer. Why? Because if you are true to who you are and they are true to who they are, if creates a refuge and place of honesty. The dynamic becomes stronger because as a Domme, I see them deciding to serve one, Me rather than being forced into it. submissives in turn see this attitude as encouraging because it reminds them that you will be there to help them transition to another if that is needed and you are allowing them the choice to serve you and others.
Of course, this is not to say I cannot manipulate the situation so that you only want to serve one 😉
What are your thoughts on serving multiple Dommes or being exclusive? When you are spending time with a Domme as a stepping stone to something else, are you honest about it?
Maîtresse Ambre Jade
Lately I have been doing a great many Goddess Worship Sessions. It has been magnificent. My body gets sore after so many hours of working, working out, karate, just life in general and to end My day with a good puppy rubbing, massaging, caressing My skin. Lucky boy, isn’t he? These Goddess Worship sessions can last hours. It is absolute bliss for both of us. Not everyone gets or deserves such luxury. Worshiping, though it might seem straightforward, training it important. There are some key factors that will determine how such a session will work out.
Who are you doing this for? Are you worshiping your Goddess for you or for Her? If you are doing it for you, that is not Goddess Worship, it is a personal indulgence and you are not worshiping for the right reasons. Yes, you can be doing it for yourself as well but the main focus should always be your Goddess. Compare it to prayer. Prayers to a Goddess can be self but your intentions should always be to praise Her first!
What makes your Goddess unique? Before Goddess worship sessions, you should reflect on the the reasons you worship your Goddess. What makes Her special? What compels you to worship Her? This tiny effort will not go unnoticed. Some Goddess thrive of the personal touches you can add. During Goddess worship sessions, I have had people worship Me for just being Superior. It is wonderful but that a little effort in making it more personal would have gone a long way!
Does your vision of Goddess worship reflect that of your Goddess? I have had some subs contact Me for a worship session and then turn it into pussy worship, them wanting to lick at My pussy for hours… Now, this is not the type of worship that just any inferior can partake in with Me. In fact to Me, it is not worship at all. The word worship comes in as an excuse to get your tongue on My clit. I don’t like it (I do enjoy the act of oral stimulation but I do not like someone thinking they can put their tongue on My skin without working for it). I don’t tolerate it. Goddess worship sessions have a deeper connection than that.
So before Goddess worship sessions, think and reflect. Have a game plan. A fumbling worship session is cute once in awhile but it gets old pretty quickly.
Maîtresse Ambre Jade
Not everyone makes a distinction between sacrifice and tribute. There is nothing wrong with that but to Me there are some important key differences. Both are signs of devotion to Me. Both make Me very happy with your performance as a submissive. Both can be component of Financial Domination but not necessarily.
A tribute is a bonus, if you will. An added dimension to prove that you are worth your place in the Doctrine of Ambre Jade. To show that you appreciate the time and the effort I put in to the Doctrine, creating a stimulating and ideal place of worship. Tributes are made out of compulsion, that need to make Me happy and pleased with you as an individual slave.
When I discuss daily sacrifice, it is the exchange of an everyday luxury for Me. Instead of purchasing some over priced, super sweet bullshit coffee concoction, you take that money and send it to Me. Sacrifice is the great equalizer. Where not everyone is in a position to tribute 500$ a week, everyone can find something they can go without so that they can contribute to Me! It allows Me to see a clear representation of how devoted one truly is. For some a 500$ tribute means nothing to them financially, it never affects their bottom line. For others, the idea of tributing such an amount would cause them financial ruin. Sacrifice allows them to prove they are willing to suffer for My pleasure. It is a greater sign of devotion in many cases.
I view gifting as an extension of a tribute. In some cases the more personal the gift the better, it proves that My devoted slave understand the individual (Me) and not just the experience of worship. Don’t get Me wrong, a gift from anyone in any capacity is lovely.
Sacrifice and tribute are both components of financial domination. When I am controlling your wallet you are expected to make sacrifices and tributes as well as gifts. But I also believe that FinDomme should be approached as a contract. That you debt to Me should have a clear amount, a clear beginning and a clear end. The fun lays in between. View My FinDomme Contract.
Kneel for your Déesse
Maîtresse Ambre Jade